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While assault or rape by an attacker is
never the victim's fault, there are a few
things students can keep in mind
While out on a date
The unfortunate statistic is that 90
percent of rapes occur between people who
already knew each other and that
approximately half of rapes happen on dates.
This is commonly known as "date rape" or
"acquaintance rape."
While sexual
assault and rape by an attacker is never the
victim's fault, there are a few things women
can bear in mind:
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Take your time in getting
to know your companion or “date.” Don't
spend time alone with someone who makes
her feel uneasy or uncomfortable. This
means following your instincts and
removing herself from situations that
you don't feel good about.
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Stay with a group of
people. Avoid risky areas, such as
deserted areas.
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Avoid excessive alcohol.
According to the Journal of Studies on
Alcohol, more than 70,000 students
between the ages of 18 and 24 have been
victims of alcohol-related sexual
assault or date rape.
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Be alert for possible use
of “date rape drugs” such as Rohypnol,
which is illegal in the United States.
Someone can slip it into a drink. It
causes drowsiness, a loss of
coordination, dizziness and memory loss.
Never take drinks from other people and
don’t leave your drink unattended.
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Tell someone you trust
your date’s name, destination and
planned time of return.
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Take money for a phone
call and taxi fare with you.
More campus safety tips:
While walking around campus
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Survey the campus after
dark to see that buildings, walkways,
quadrangles and parking lots are
adequately secured, lighted and
patrolled.
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Avoid walking alone if
possible.
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Walk with an air of
confidence and stay alert.
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Walk in lighted areas.
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Keep your hand free, not
overloaded.
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Have your keys ready.
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If you are being
followed: cross the street, scream, run
to an occupied residence or store, or
flag down a car.
At dorm rooms
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Doors and windows to your
residence hall should be equipped with
quality locks. Room doors should have
peepholes and deadbolts.
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Do not loan out your key.
Never compromise your safety for a
roommate or friend who wants the door
left unlocked. Replace locks when a key
is lost or stolen.
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Use caution admitting
strangers.
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Have good lighting around
entrances.
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If you are a woman and
live alone or with other women, use only
your first initials on your mailbox and,
when possible, in phone directories.
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Report suspicious
activity to campus police—or to the
police if you live off-campus.
While in your car
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Keep windows up and doors
locked.
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Park in well-lighted
areas and travel on populated,
well-lighted streets.
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Never pick up
hitchhikers.
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If you have car trouble,
signal for help by raising the hood or
tying a white handkerchief to the door
handle.
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PROTECTING CHILDREN & TEENS
It is very important to approach the subject
of safety in a non-threatening way. We do
not want to make children fearful of
potentially dangerous situations or people
in general, but we do want to teach them to
be cautious and to be able to recognize when
something may be wrong.
The key is to help children feel empowered
and to encourage them to develop and trust
their intuition. We want to teach them to be
able to talk to you, their caregiver, when
something is bothering them. Open
communication between parents and children
is one of the most important aspects to
protecting your child from predators.
10 SAFETY TIPS EVERY PARENT SHOULD KNOW:
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THE KEY IS COMMUNICATION:
It is important to talk openly with your
children about all safety issues,
including what to do in a potential
abduction situation.
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KNOWLEDGE IS POWER:
Talk to your children about the rules
pertaining to strangers. Let them know a
stranger or predator looks just like any
other person and will use any number of
ways to lure a child. Remember, the vast
number of children who are victimized
know their assailants.
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COMMON PREDATOR LURES:
Pretending to look for a lost pet;
asking the child for directions; giving
or promising candy and/or money if the
child will go to their car; and,
threatening to hurt family members if
the child does not comply. It’s time for
your child to run!
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Never label clothing, backpacks, or
other personal items with your child's
name. A predator will use this
information to try to gain your child’s
trust. (Place the label inside the
object and/or use the child’s initials
or some design for easy identification.)
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Give your children instructions on what
to do if they get separated from you in
a mall, supermarket or any other public
place. Tell them to first find a mother
with children or any woman and let them
know they are lost. Also they can go to
a check-out counter, information desk,
or approach a police officer.
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Make sure that your child knows his or
her full name, address, and phone number
and the phone number for the place where
you work or how to contact you. They
also need to know how to dial 911, make
collect calls, and dial the operator on
a pay phone.
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Know where your children are at all
times, and keep a list of their friend’s
names, addresses and phone numbers and
remember to update your children’s
records including a photo every 6-12
months. Be aware of overnight parties
unless you personally know and trust the
teens and adults living and having
access to that home.
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Trust your own instincts – if you don’t
feel good about a person, keep your
child away from that person.
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PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE:
Going over this information once with
your children is not enough! You need to
continue to rehearse and “role play” to
make the learning permanent so your
child can react properly when under
pressure.
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IF YOUR CHILD IS MISSING:
Try not to panic. First check everywhere
in the house, then check with your
neighbors and your child's friends. If
you still cannot locate them, call the
police immediately. REMEMBER:
There is no waiting period required to
report a missing child to the police.
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Safety Tips for Children
10 SAFETY TIPS EVERY CHILD SHOULD KNOW:
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Do not get into any car unless your
parents personally tell you to. Also,
stay away from anyone who follows you on
foot or in a car. You do not need and
should not go near a car to talk to the
people inside.
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Adults and other people who need help
should not be asking a child for help;
they should be asking other adults.
Adults should not be asking you for
directions or to look for a “lost puppy”
or telling you that your mother or
father is in trouble and that they will
take you to them.
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Quickly get away from anyone who tries
to take you somewhere. Yell or scream,
“This person is not my father (or
mother).”
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You should use the “buddy system” and
never go places alone. Always ask your
parents’ permission to leave the
yard/play area or to go over to
someone’s home and especially always ask
permission before you go into someone’s
home.
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Never, never hitchhike! Do not try to
get a ride with people unless your
parents have told you it’s okay to do
so.
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People should not ask you to keep a
special secret. If they do, tell your
parents or teacher. Also, tell anyone
who wants to take your picture, “No,”
and quickly tell your parents or
teacher.
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No one should touch you on the parts of
the body covered by your bathing suit,
nor should you touch anyone else in
those areas. Your body is special and
private.
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You can be assertive and you have the
right to say “No” to someone, including
adults and even relatives or friends who
try to take you somewhere against your
will, touch you, or who makes you feel
uncomfortable in ANY WAY .
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NOTE
: Many parents use a special code word
that only the child knows to convey a
message should someone other than a
parent ask a child to accompany them
anywhere.
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THE YELL
: Practice a “Special” yell. It is low,
loud and long. It tells the person
trying to hurt the child, “I know what
to do! I’m not an easy victim!” It tells
everyone within the sound of the child’s
voice, “I need help!” It gets the child
going, it breaks the “spell.” A child
should not panic and freeze, thereby
becoming immobile in an emergency. When
you yell you take a deep breath, thereby
getting oxygen and energy to your brain
and muscles. Your own yell can give you
courage and get your feet moving when
you need to run away!
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Internet Safety Tips for Children:
Protecting Children Online
The Internet is a vast new world of
information, entertainment and learning
opportunities, but "cyberspace" also holds
many dangers for children. Fortunately,
there are things you can do to protect your
child.
How to Introduce Your Child to the Internet
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Explain to your child that even though
he or she may be alone when using the
Internet, other people can connect to
your computer to find out who and where
you are and that precautions must be
taken.
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Explore the Internet together, letting
your child take the lead.
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Talk to your child about things that
concern you about the Internet ... like
exploitation, pornography, hate
literature and the like ... so they'll
know what to do if they encounter it.
How to Control Access
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Choose an online service provider that
enables you to block access to any site
not marked as appropriate for children
... chat rooms, bulletin boards, news
and discussion groups ... or to the
Internet altogether.
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Buy software that allows you to design
your own set of protective barriers to
block sites and prevent your child from
giving out information online.
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Look over your child's shoulder from
time to time, not only checking what is
on screen but also watching for
uneasiness or other signs that something
forbidden may be going on.
Teach Your Child to:
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Let you know right away if he or she
sees anything disturbing online.
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Never give out any personal information.
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Never agree to meet someone face-to-face
after encountering them online. • Never
respond to messages that contain obscene
or weird language.
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Avoid sites that charge for services.
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Never send personal or family photos to
anyone online without getting permission
from you.
Other Ways to Promote Cyber-Safety
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Make sure Internet access at school is
controlled and monitored by adults.
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If your child has a friend with Internet
access, find out from that child's
parents if adequate controls are in
place and if children are monitored when
online.
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Make sure your child's school has an
Acceptable Use Policy (AUP) that defines
acceptable and unacceptable online
activities and resources, spells out the
consequences for violations, and has a
place for you and your child to sign.
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If your child receives offensive or
threatening e-mail, save the material as
evidence and contact your local law
enforcement agency immediately.
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If you encounter a site that's
inappropriate for children, send its
address to online services and sites
that provide blocking software so they
can review it.
Safety Tips for Teens
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Tell you where they are at all times or
leave a written or recorded message at
home.
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Never hitchhike.
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Avoid shortcuts through empty parks,
fields, lane ways or alleys.
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Run home or go to the nearest public
place and yell for help if they are
being followed.
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Learn to recognize suspicious behavior
and remember a description of the person
or vehicle to give you or the police.
Write the license plate number in the
dirt or snow if nothing else is
available.
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If attacked for money, jewelry or
clothing give it up rather than risk
injury.
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Feel that they can talk to you and call
you to pick them up any time, any place.
Internet Safety Tips For Teens (20% of
children receive unwanted online
solicitations)
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Don’t give out personal information
about yourself, your family situation,
your school, your telephone number, or
your address or your activities.
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If you become aware of the sharing, use,
or viewing of child pornography online,
immediately report this to the National
Center for Missing & Exploited Children
at 1-800-843-5678.
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When in chat rooms remember that not
everyone may be who they say they are.
For example a person who says "she" is a
14-year-old girl from New York may
really be a 42-year-old man from
California.
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If someone harasses you online, says
anything inappropriate, or does anything
that makes you feel uncomfortable,
contact your Internet service provider.
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Know that there are rules many Internet
Service Providers (ISP) have about
online behavior. If you disobey an ISP's
rules, your ISP may penalize you by
disabling your account, and sometimes
every account in a household, either
temporarily or permanently.
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Consider volunteering at your local
library, school, or Boys & Girls Club to
help younger children online. Many
schools and nonprofit organizations are
in need of people to help set up their
computers and Internet capabilities.
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A friend you meet online may not be the
best person to talk to if you are having
problems at home, with your friends, or
at school - remember the teenage "girl"
from New York in Tip number three? If
you can't find an adult in your school,
church, club, or neighborhood to talk
to, Covenant House is a good place to
call at 1-800-999-9999. The people there
provide counseling to kids and teens,
refer them to local shelters, help them
with law enforcement, and can serve as
mediators by calling their parents.
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If you are thinking about running away,
a friend from online (remember the
14-year-old girl) may not be the best
person to talk to or plan with. If there
is no adult in your community you can
find to talk to, call the National
Runaway Switchboard at 1-800-621-4000.
Although some of your online friends may
seem to really listen to you, the
Switchboard will be able to give you
honest, useful answers to some of your
questions about what to do when you are
depressed, abused, or thinking about
running away.
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Dating Safety Tips for Teens
Avoiding Teen Dating Violence
Whether your teen has known her boyfriend or
date for seven years or seven days, she
should be conscious of the person's behavior
at all times and not put her safety at risk.
Pass along these warning signs to your
children so that they can respond
proactively to a threatening situation
rather than reactively. If your date
exhibits these behaviors, he/she is probably
someone you should not date.
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Acts jealous and possessive.
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Won't let you have friends.
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Checks up on you.
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Refuses to accept breaking up.
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Bosses you around.
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Insists on making all decisions.
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Belittles you and your opinions.
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Frightens or threatens you.
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Owns, uses or talks a lot about weapons.
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Acts violent, getting into fights or
angering quickly.
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Pushes, grabs, pinches or hits you.
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Pressures you for sex or gets serious
about your relationship too fast.
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Uses alcohol or other drugs and
pressures you to do the same.
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Threatens to hurt him/herself to make
you comply with his or her demands.
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Demands that you lie to others about
your relationship with him.
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Has been involved in a number of failed
relationships.
What can your child do to protect herself in
a threatening situation?
Here's some advice you can provide to him or
her:
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Talk to someone you trust and/or can
help, like a parent, friend, counselor
or clergyman.
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Tell a school counselor or security
officer what's going on.
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Make daily notes about the disturbing
behavior.
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Avoid being alone with your date at
home, school, work or anywhere else.
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When you go out, tell someone where you
are going, who you are with and when
you'll be back.
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Plan and rehearse what you will do if
your dating partner gets abusive.
If a friend of yours is a victim of dating
violence, here are some ways you can help:
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If you see signs of abuse, talk to your
friend about it.
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Tell your friend that you're worried and
want to help.
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An abusive partner often undermines the
victim's self-confidence, so point out
your friend's good qualities.
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Encourage your friend to talk to a
trusted adult, offering to go along.
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If the situation's getting worse, talk
to an adult yourself, and if you witness
an assault, contact the police, school
principal or other adult immediately.
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Don't endanger yourself by confronting
the abusive partner.
Want to take an active role helping others
deal with dating violence, consider:
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Starting a peer education program for
teenagers in your area.
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Asking your school librarian to purchase
self-help books about dating violence
and domestic violence.
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Using school bulletin boards and
newspapers to raise awareness about the
problem and how to deal with it.
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Putting on a play about teen dating
violence.
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Asking your church or club to consider
this topic in educational classes.
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Weekend and Party Safety Issues
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Don't do ANYTHING
that makes you feel uncomfortable.
People won't look down on you for saying
"no," and if they do, they're not worth
your time.
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Don't accept any food or drinks from
someone you don't completely trust.
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Never leave your drink unattended.
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Don’t drink from punch bowls where you
don’t know what has been put into it.
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Make sure you have a safe way to get
home.
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Make sure your parents know where you
are.
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Beware of drugs like "the date rape
drug." Some drugs can be hard to detect,
and have very serious affects.
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Try to keep parties under control, even
if it comes to you calling the police.
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Act responsibly. If you get caught doing
something illegal, not only will you
have to face the consequences, if you're
underage, your parents or guardians can
also be held responsible.
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Adopt the "buddy system." Go to a party
with a friend, and make sure you leave
with that friend.
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Don’t drive while intoxicated, and don’t
allow a friend to drive while under the
influence of any substance.
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Don't hesitate to call 911 if there is a
medical emergency.
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PROTECTING COLLEGE STUDENTS & YOUNG ADULTS
College Student Safety Tips
FUNDAMENTALS
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Freshmen should "respectfully decline"
to have photo and personal information
published for distribution to the campus
community. Fraternities and
upperclassmen and others with access
have abused this type of publication to
"target" naive freshmen.
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Study the campus and neighborhood with
respect to routes between your residence
and class/activities schedule. Know
where emergency phones are located and
carry a cell phone.
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Share your class/activities schedule
with parents and a network of close
friends, effectively creating a type of
"buddy" system. Give network telephone
numbers to your parents, advisors, and
friends.
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Always travel in groups. Use a shuttle
service after dark. Never walk alone at
night. Avoid "shortcuts" and don’t be
the last person out of the library at
night.
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Survey the campus, academic buildings,
residence halls, and other facilities
while classes are in session and after
dark to see that buildings, walkways,
quad-r angles, and parking lots are
adequately secured, lit and patrolled.
Are emergency phones, escorts, and
shuttle services adequate?
To gauge the social scene, drive down
fraternity row on weekend nights and stroll
through the student hangouts. Are people
behaving responsibly, or does the situation
seem reckless and potentially dangerous?
Remember, alcohol and/or drug abuse is
involved in about 90% of campus crime.
Carefully evaluate off-campus student
apartment complexes and fraternity houses if
you plan to live off-campus.
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Do not give your name and address to
strangers.
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Do not give out personal information
over the telephone to people you do not
know. (SS #, credit card #'s, driver's
license #'s, address, etc.)
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When leaving your residence hall,
campus, etc., let someone know where you
are going.
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Walk with a friend. It is less likely
that something would happen if there
were two of you.
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Never walk alone at night. Many college
security and safety departments offer an
escort service that provides you with
the assurance of safe travel on campus.
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Have your key ready to open your car
doors, especially at night. Your keys
can be a defensive weapon.
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Look inside your car before entering;
also check vehicle for possible
break-ins. Assailants sometimes hide in
the back seat of a vehicle or even under
it.
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Personal property should never be left
unattended, even if it is only for a few
minutes. Remember, take it with you or
lock it up. Take your books and book
bags to your table when you go to eat
and don’t leave your purse, wallet, or
other valuables alone.
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Always make sure that the office or
classroom door is locked if you should
be working or studying late. Remember;
never prop any door open for someone
else.
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You should report all incidents
involving vandalism, theft, damage or
persons in the residence hall that are
not escorted or are suspicious in
nature.
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When leaving your residence hall room,
whether it is to visit a next-door
neighbor or to use the restroom, always
lock the door and take the key. Lock
your door, even if you only plan on
being gone a few minutes.
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Avoid keeping high value items and large
amounts of cash in your residence. For
valued items you do keep on hand, keep
them out of sight and well hidden. The
same procedure applies to your credit
card, checkbook, and your unused check
supply as well.
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Engrave items of value and be sure to
maintain a record of serial numbers of
such items as personal computers, TVs,
radios, stereos, answering machines,
cameras, etc. A copy of this record
should also be maintained at another
offsite location. You should engrave
your driver's license # and state on
items. Driver's license #'s are easier
for police to track.
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Don't let strangers in the building or
allow them to "tailgate" or follow you
through after you open the door.
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Do not lend your room key, residence
hall key, give out the residence hall
door combination. The residence hall is
like your home, nobody should enter same
without you wanting them there. These
are college violations.
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Entrance doors to the residence halls
should never be propped open. The locks
are designed to allow only residence of
the hall to have access. Propping doors
open will allow non-residences to enter,
jeopardizing yours and everyone else's
safety.
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All visitors, student and non-student,
are required at all times to be escorted
while in a residence hall by the person
they are visiting.
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All visitors are to be escorted out of
the residence halls when leaving.
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All suspicious person(s) need to be
reported immediately to your RA, RD or
Security.
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All crimes need to be reported
immediately to your RA, RD or Security.
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Do not leave notes on your door that you
are not there. That is an invitation for
some unwanted person to enter your room.
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Keep your shades drawn when changing
clothes or retiring for the night.
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Purchase locking devices if you have
your own computer and printer in your
room.
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Apartment Safety Tips
Do you think you, your roommate/family, and
your belongings are safe in your apartment?
Are you sure? Do you know what you should be
looking for when you look for an apartment
or analyze your home security?
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Get to know both your neighbors and the
neighborhood. Be aware of what's
happening in the area, especially if any
of your neighbors have been victims of
burglary
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Make sure there is adequate lighting in
all exterior areas of the complex. If
you believe there is an area that needs
more light, notify the landlord, and ask
neighbors to do the same. Your landlord
is required by law to provide you with a
safe environment. Also notify the
maintenance office immediately if you
notice burnt out bulbs in any lights in
exterior or common areas.
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Make sure your door has a dead bolt in
addition to any knob lock. Don't rely on
either locks in knobs or on chains. Your
door should also have a peephole (if you
have children, consider getting one at
their height, too). You can ask the
landlord to replace or re-key your dead
bolt and install a peephole. If he won’t
do it, see about doing it at your own
expense (don't forget to give a key to
the landlord if you are required to
under the lease).
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If you have a security system in the
building -- use it. Don't ever buzz
strangers into the building or allow
strangers to enter the building when you
are either entering or leaving.
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Be careful when using laundry or other
common facilities after dark. Consider
doing laundry, swimming, working out,
etc. with a buddy. If these facilities
have locking doors, make sure they are
locked, and don't let anyone in who
doesn't have a key.
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Make sure any windows accessible from
the ground, balconies, or fire escapes
have stops to prevent them opening
enough to let a person through. A long
screw in the frame is enough to stop a
window from opening more than a couple
of inches while still allowing
ventilation.
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If you have a sliding glass door, use a
stop of some sort in the track to keep
the door from opening more than a few
inches (a steel or wooden dowel is
inexpensive and effective). You should
also install screws in the frame to
prevent the entire door from being
removed.
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Make sure you have adequate smoke
detectors, especially outside the
kitchen and bedrooms. Check your
detectors regularly and replace
batteries at least twice a year. Make
sure any necessary carbon monoxide or
natural gas detectors are also working
and maintained.
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Purchase fire extinguishers. There
should be one accessible from the
bedrooms, and one in the kitchen.
Ideally the extinguishers should be
rated ABC (for all three major types of
fire) -- the extinguisher in the kitchen
should have a definite B rating (for
grease and other flammable liquids).
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Know all routes of escape from your
apartment in case of fire. Inexpensive
collapsible ladders by bedroom windows
will ensure escape should a fire block
other exits. Make sure your entire
room/family can exit directly from your
apartment to the outdoors, and practice.
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Don't advertise your absence by leaving
notes for maintenance personnel,
children, neighbors, etc., on your door
or mailbox.
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Single women should never have their
full names listed in the phone book or
posted on buzzers or mailboxes. Try to
get your neighbors to all agree to use
initials on buzzers and mailboxes. If
you live alone, try putting two initials
on the buzzer.
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Don't hide a spare key outside. If you
want, find a neighbor you trust and make
a deal to keep each other's spare keys.
Having to pay a locksmith to get you in
is still cheaper than losing your
valuables when a thief finds the key.
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Don't have your entire address listed in
the phone book -- list only your street
name or just the town or city. Reverse
listings can allow thieves to find your
phone number and name from your address.
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Get renters insurance. If anything were
to happen, you'd at least be able to
replace your belongings.
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Keep an inventory of your valuables.
Photographs of expensive jewelry and
serial numbers of all electronic and
computer equipment should be kept in a
fireproof safe or safe deposit box.
Etching your driver's license number on
your electronics can identify them in
the case of theft (many police
departments offer this etching as a free
service).
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Talk to your local police department
about having a security check -- many
will do them for free.
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Consider starting a neighborhood watch
program in your complex or community.
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If you are really concerned, there are a
number of wireless home security systems
perfect for apartment dwellers.
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10 Tips for Online Dating Safety
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Start Slow.
Watch out for someone who seems too good
to be true. Experience suggests they
probably are. Begin by first
communicating solely via email. Be on
the lookout for odd behavior or
inconsistencies. “Listen” to your
correspondent’s words. The person at the
other end may not be who or what he/she
says. Trust your instincts. If anything
makes you uncomfortable, walk away for
your own safety and protection.
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Guard Your Anonymity.
Never include your last name, real email
address, personal Web site URL, home
address, phone number, place of work, or
any other identifying information in
your profile or in the initial emails
you exchange with others. Make sure your
email signature file is turned off, or
does not include identifying
information, when corresponding with
dating service member via your own
email. Stop communicating with anyone
who pressures you for this information
or attempts in any way to trick you into
revealing it. Take all the time you need
to become comfortable with someone
before revealing any person contact
information. Ask questions and make sure
you are satisfied with the answers.
Trust your instincts, move cautiously
and be selective. Don’t feel responsible
to provide personal information just
because the other person does; he/she
may not be honest in what they provide.
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Exercise Caution and Common Sense.
Careful, well-thought-out decisions
generally lead to better results in
dating, and this is certainly true with
online dating. Guard against trusting
the untrustworthy. Any potential suitor
must earn your trust gradually, through
consistently honorable, forthright
behavior. Your job is to take all the
time you need to test for a trustworthy
person, and pay careful attention along
the way. Take a relatively conservative
approach to trusting anyone you meet
online. If you think someone is lying,
it is likely that they are, so act
accordingly. Move on to someone you can
eventually trust. Conduct yourself and
your romances in a responsible manner.
Don’t fall in love at the click of a
mouse. Don’t become prematurely intimate
with someone, even if that intimacy only
occurs online.
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Request a Photo.
A photo will give you a good idea of the
person's appearance, which may prove
helpful in achieving a gut feeling about
your correspondent. In fact, it’s best
to view several images of this person in
a variety of settings: casual, formal,
indoor, outdoors. If he or she
continuously comes up with an excuse, it
may be because that person has something
to hide. Getting a photo scanned is less
than ten dollars at Kinko’s, so there is
little excuse for not doing it.
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Talk Via Telephone.
A phone call can reveal much about a
person’s communication and social
skills. It is worth the cost of the call
to protect your security. But do not
give out your personal phone number to a
stranger. Try a cell phone number
instead for added security. Or make
arrangements to call from a pay phone so
the other person’s caller ID won’t
record your number. Only when you feel
completely comfortable should you
furnish your phone number.
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Meet When YOU Are Ready.
The beauty of meeting and relating
online is that you can gradually collect
information and then make a choice about
pursuing the relationship in the real
world. You are never obligated to meet
anyone, regardless of your level of
online intimacy. And even if you do
decide to arrange a meeting, you always
have the right to change your mind. It’s
possible that your decision to keep the
relationship at the anonymous level is
based on a hunch that you can’t
logically explain. Trust yourself. Go
with your gut instincts, even when they
can’t be logically explained1 Never meet
someone who argues against your
instincts, finds logical flaws with your
feelings, or pressures you in any way.
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Watch for Red Flags.
Pay attention to any displays of anger,
intense frustration or attempts at
pressuring or controlling you. Acting in
a passive-aggressive manner, making
demeaning or disrespectful comments or
any physically inappropriate behavior
are all red flags. You should also be
concerned if your date exhibits any of
the following conduct without providing
an acceptable explanation:
• Provides inconsistent information about
age, interests, appearance, marital status,
profession, employment, etc.
• Refuses to speak to you on the phone after
establishing ongoing, online intimacy.
• Fails to provide direct answers to direct
questions.
• Appears in person to be significantly
different from his or her online persona.
• Never introduces you to friends,
professional associates or family members.
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Select the Safest Possible Environment.
When you make the choice to meet
offline, always tell someone where you
are going and when you will return.
Leave your date’s name and telephone
number with that person. Never arrange
for your date to pick you up at home or
where you work. Provide your own
transportation, meet in a public place
at a time when many people are present,
and when the date is over, leave on your
own as well. A familiar restaurant or
coffee shop, at a time when a lot of
other people will be present is often a
fine choice. Avoid hikes, bike rides or
drives in remote areas for the first few
dates. If you decide to move to another
location, take your own car. When the
timing is appropriate, thank your date
for getting together and say goodbye.
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Take Extra Caution Outside Your Area.
If you are flying in from another area,
arrange for your own car and a hotel
room. Do not disclose the name of your
hotel and never allow your date to make
the arrangements for you. Rent a car at
the airport and drive directly to your
hotel. Call your date from the hotel or
meet at the location you have already
agreed to. If the location seems
inappropriate or unsafe, go back to your
hotel. Try to contact your date at that
location, or leave a message on voice
mail or an answering machine. Always
make sure a friend or family member
knows your plans and has your contact
information. And if possible, carry a
cell phone at all times.
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Get Yourself Out of a Jam
. Never do anything you feel unsure
about. If you are in any way afraid of
your date or arrangements your date
suggests, use your best judgment to
diffuse the situation and get out of
there. Excuse yourself long enough to
call a friend for advice, ask someone
else on the scene for help, or slip out
the back door and drive away. If you
feel you are in danger, call the police.
It’s always better to be safe than
sorry. Never worry or feel embarrassed
about your apprehensions or your
behavior. Your safety is much more
important than any one person’s opinion
of you.
While liars, cheaters and imposters
certainly ply their craft on the Web, you’ll
also find them in nightclubs, among the
membership ranks of off-line dating
services, at cocktail parties, and
occasionally sitting across from you at your
local cafe. Regardless of where, or how, you
meet someone, dating is never a risk-free
activity. Bottom Line - A little caution
will reduce your risk in these matters of
the heart.
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WOMEN'S SECURITY ISSUES
Almost two million women are physically
assaulted annually in the United States, and
15 to 25 percent of all American women will
report a sexual attack or rape at some time
in their lives, this according to studies
conducted by the Justice Department and
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
A majority of the women seen in hospital
emergency rooms across the country have been
the victim of assault, mainly by men that
they know. The sad fact is that about 90% of
rapes occur between people who already knew
each other and that approximately half of
rapes happen on dates. This is commonly
known as date rape. Date Rape is forced or
coerced sex between; partners, dates,
friends, friends of friends or general
acquaintances.
Experts say that because the majority of
sexual assaults go unreported, the numbers
from these studies may represent only a
fraction of the violent of crimes against
women.
But while these numbers may seem
frighteningly high, safety authorities are
quick to point out that women need not view
themselves as helpless victims. Crime and
safety specialists have suggested the
following as the most effective precautions
a woman can take when walking alone to keep
herself from becoming an assault statistic:
Dress to Kill. Clogs, high heels, and tight
skirts are hard to run and fight in, while
scarves and long necklaces are easy to grab.
If possible, modify your fashion style or
wear comfortable clothing when walking
alone. You can always change into dress
clothes later. Or, think through how you
would fight in your dress clothes. Would you
kick off your high heels or hike your skirt
up around your hips to run or kick; would
you use a high heel as a weapon?
Make Eye Contact. It may be your first
instinct to lower your gaze as you walk to
your destination, but looking straight into
the face of potential assailants is the
better option. Eye contact is important as
such may scare off attackers because they
fear you will be able to identify them.
Keep your Eyes and Ears Open and your Hands
Free. It is important to be alert to whom and
what is around you. Talking on a cell phone
or listening to headphones makes you a
likely target as well as easy prey for a
predator. The only reason you should be
using your cell phone is notify a friend of
your whereabouts or to call for help. Also,
limit the number of bundles you have to
carry by using a backpack or bag with a
shoulder strap. This will ensure that your
hands are free to defend. Be prepared to
surrender your backpack or purse as opposed
to becoming the victim of a violent assault.
Be Lazy; Take the Elevator Over the
Stairs. And when in the elevator, stand in
front of the doors, and then if someone you
feel uneasy about gets on with you, you can
step off immediately.
Fight Your Inner Woman. Experts say that
women tend to be sympathetic — don't be!
History has shown that serial killers and
other criminals often play on the sympathies
of unsuspecting women to lure them into
dangerous situations. If someone asks for
the time, directions, or help in or around
their car, be as courteous as possible but
keep moving, and definitely move away from
the potential assailant. You can always
assist the stranger by making a phone call
to police from a safe location, or by
finding others to go back and help with you.
Change It Up. Regularly change your walking
routine. Plan out a few different routes
that you can take and mark out "safe houses"
in your mind at intervals along the way. In
the event of attacks, you can stop at these
shops or homes where you know you will be
safe. Try to incorporate these houses every
time you vary your route. If you feel you
are being followed, retrace your steps to
the last safe location, and/or walk in the
opposite direction of the person or vehicle
that you are suspicious of.
Be Paranoid and Suspicious. It is always
better to be safe than sorry. When in a
parking lot, look at the cars parked on
either side of your vehicle. If a male in a
vehicle is sitting alone in the seat nearest
your car, or if you are parked next to a
van, always enter your car from the side
opposite the strange vehicle. If the parking
lot is particularly dark or deserted, it may
be wise to go back and find a friend or
guard who can walk you to your car. Don’t be
the last person out of a location and be
forced to walk alone in a dark and/or nearly
empty parking lot and look in your vehicle’s
back seat to insure no one is hiding there
before you enter, then get in your vehicle
and lock your doors immediately.
When It's Too Late
If you are in a violent situation, the most
important thing is to react immediately.
Never Get Into a Stranger's Car. Even if he
has a gun or knife. Run, fight do whatever
you can to stay out of that car because you
are statistically "dead" if he gets you in
there.
Run, Run, Run. If the predator has a gun but
you are not under his control, take off
running. Even if the predator shoots at you,
they will only hit you, a running target,
four out of every 100 shots. And even then,
it most likely will not be a vital organ,
and they will leave you as they flee the
location. Put as much distance between you
and your assailant as you can and don’t be a
willing or compliant victim.
Stay Put. Do not let your attacker take you
to an abandoned area. If he does, the
likelihood that you will be seriously
injured increases tenfold. You do not want
to get to "crime scene number two," so do
whatever it takes and never, never give up.
Hit the Attacker Where It Counts. The eyes,
knees, throat and groin are very vulnerable,
good places to gouge and kick. But listen to
your instincts and try to determine if a
counter attack by you is the best approach.
If you do decide to fight, make sure your
first move is as forceful as possible. It
may be your only hope.
Try Anything and Everything. Additional
approaches are offering your wallet, jumping
out at a stoplight, doing something to cause
an vehicle accident, or signaling to other
drivers. If you are thrown into the trunk of
a car, experts advise you to kick out the
back tail lights, stick your arm out the
hole, and start waving wildly. The driver
won't see you but everyone else will. This
trick is said to have saved lives.
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Victim Profile
The #1 thing men look for in a potential
victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to
go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid
or other hairstyle that can easily be
grabbed. They are also likely to go after a
woman with long hair. Women with short hair
are not as common targets.
Assailants also look for women on their cell
phone, searching through their purse or
doing other activities while walking because
they are off guard and can be easily
overpowered.
The time of day men are most likely to
attack and rape a woman is in the early
morning, between 5 and 8:30 a.m.
The number one place women are abducted from
or attacked is at a grocery store parking
lot. Number two is office parking
lots/garages, and number three is public
restrooms. These assailants are looking to
grab a woman and quickly move her to a
second, secluded location where they don't
have to worry about getting being seen or
caught.
Only 2% of the rapists interviewed said they
carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5
year sentence but rape with a weapon is
15-20 years.
Therefore, if you put up any kind of a fight
at all, your assailant may become
discouraged, this as it only takes a minute
or two for him/them to realize that going
after you isn't worth it because it will be
time-consuming. The rapists interviewed said
they will not pick on women who have
umbrellas or other similar objects in their
hands that can be used from a distance. Keys
are not necessarily a deterrent because you
have to get really close to the attacker to
use them as a weapon, but they may be better
than nothing. So, the idea is to convince
these guys you're not worth the challenge.
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Several defense mechanisms
If someone is following you on the street or
in a garage or with you in an elevator or
stairwell and if you feel they are
suspicious, look them in the face and ask
them a question, like what time is it, or
make general small talk: "I can't believe it
is so cold out here, we're in for a bad
winter." “I’ve seen you before somewhere
haven’t I?” Now you've seen their face and
could identify them in a lineup, so you may
lose appeal as a target.
If someone is coming toward you, hold out
your hands in front of you and yell "Stop"
or "Stay back!" Most of the rapists said
they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or
showed that she would not be afraid to fight
back. Again, they are looking for an EASY
target. If you carry pepper spray (many self
defense instructors advocate it) and suggest
that you yell "I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY" and hold
it out as both a deterrent and to be ready
to use it if necessary, i.e., don’t have to
look in your purse for it.
If someone grabs you, you probably can't
beat them with strength on strength, but you
can outsmart them. If they grab your wrist,
pull your wrist back so your hand is in
waving position (palm facing forward) and
twist it toward yourself and pull your arm
away. It is hard to hold onto wrist bones
that are moving in that way. They stumble
toward you and you stumble back, so you can
use that momentum to backhand them with your
knuckles in the forehead, nose or teeth. If
you are grabbed around the waist from
behind, pinch the attacker either under the
arm between the elbow and armpit, or in the
upper inner thigh, and do it HARD. Try
pinching yourself in those places as hard as
you can stand it; it hurts!
After the initial hit, always go for the
groin. It is extremely painful if you slap a
guy's testicles (do not be afraid, your life
may be at stake!). You might think that
you'll make the potential rapist really mad
and make him want to hurt you more, but most
rapists interviewed reported that they want
a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble.
Start causing trouble, and he'll likely run
off.
If he puts his hands up to grab you, grab
his first two fingers and bend them back as
far as possible with as much pressure
pushing down on them as possible. This is a
hold similar to that taught to swimming life
guards to allow them to save themselves from
a drowning victim who is trying to take the
guard with them.
Of course the advice we always hear still
applies. Always be aware of your
surroundings, take someone with you if you
can and if you see any odd behavior, don't
dismiss it, and always go with your
instincts. You may feel a little silly at
the time, but you'd feel much worse if the
guy really was trouble. You want to identify
potentially threatening situations and avoid
them. Don’t intentionally walk into harm’s
way and trust your instincts: if the
situation doesn't’t feel right, it probably
isn't’t!
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56 Tips for Stalking Victims
The below represent a compilation of
suggestions gathered from many victims of
stalkers, law enforcement agencies, security
consultants and other experts in this field.
Not all will be appropriate in each and
every case, and each suggestion should be
considered on its own merits and on the
anticipated benefit you may derive, vs. the
potential negative effect each could bring
about.
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Ignore the individual
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Be clear and unambiguous that the
relationship is over, or that you do not
desire a relationship
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Do not give reasons for break up
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Do not let the stalker see your concern
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Cut off all contact with the stalker
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Do not have someone else intervene in
your behalf
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Answering machine should not say "Not at
Home" but rather simply state your
telephone number (also use a voice other
than your own on the answering machine)
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Use caller ID or contact telephone
company
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Obtain an unlisted phone number
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Make sure house address is clearly
marked and that it is visible from the
street, so police and rescue personnel
can respond easily
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Get a dog
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Do not allow strangers in your house
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Keep address and schedule secret
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Inquire about laws concerning your
situation
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Notify authorities every time stalker
bothers you and keep copies of the
reports
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Treat all threats as legitimate and call
police every time the stalker shows up
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Press charges every time and have a term
of his bond be that he can not contact
you
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Ask for periodic police drive-by's
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Obtain a restraining order
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You usually should not ask the police to
go and just visit the stalker, for if
the police do not arrest him, the
stalker could feel that his target's
best defense was useless
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Go public
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Send a registered letter telling person
to stop; this can be sent from your
attorney
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Photograph the stalker
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Use a video camera to tape the stalker
and things that he does
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Keep a log of stalking activities
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Have witnesses to testify
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Keep all written materials received from
the suspect
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Document all medical reports of physical
abuse
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Take photos of wounds, bruises and acts
of vandalism
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Join a support group
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Vary your routine
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Limit time spent walking alone or along
the same route
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Notify neighbors and coworkers about the
situation and give them a photo of the
stalker and tell them to notify you if
they see him
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If you need to, get an unlisted phone
number for day to day business, and
leave an answering machine on your
listed or known phone number to let the
unwanted person leave their messages
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Have mail screened (by whom?)
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Have coworkers screen calls and visitors
(use phone mail and its mechanical-like
voice answering capability)
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Have coworkers check with each other to
see if someone is calling them all
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Alert security personnel at work
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Stay in public areas and try not to
travel alone
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Get a car (cellular) telephone
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Children should be accompanied to the
bus or to school
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Do not park in garages that require the
keys to your car
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Lock car door when traveling and be
aware of other cars
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Rent a mailbox from a private service
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Ask for a free home security check-up
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Lock fuse box, car, garage, trim hedges
by windows
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Equip gas tank with a lock and the hood
release should be inside the car
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Install deadbolts; if all the keys can
not be accounted for change the locks
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Install outside lighting (motion
detectors)
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Secure car and house at all times and
install alarms in both
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If you move, do not leave a paper trail
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Take name off all properties and entrust
them to a trusted friend or relative
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Change jobs
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Hire a private security guard
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Have a contingency plan that includes:
(a) quick access to important phone
numbers
(b) packed suitcase
(c) reserved money Alert critical people
to situation and plan
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Take legal action other than a TRO
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Domestic Violence
If you feel you are in danger from your
abuser at any time, you can call 911 or your
local police. Various anti-domestic violence
organizations, police departments and your
employer may be able to provide you with a
cell phone that is programmed to only call
911. These phones are for when you need to
call the police and cannot call any other
phone. If you can afford it, have your own
cell phone.
Consider the following:
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If you are in danger when the police
come, they can protect you.
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They can help you and your children
leave your home safely.
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They can arrest your abuser when they
have enough proof that you have been
abused.
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They can arrest your abuser if a
personal protection order (PPO) has been
violated.
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When the police come, tell them
everything the abuser did that made you
call.
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If you have been hit, tell the police
where. Tell them how many times it
happened. Show them any marks left on
your body. Marks may take time to show
up. If you see a mark after the police
leave, call the police to take pictures
of the marks. They may be used in court.
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If your abuser has broken any property,
show the police.
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The police can give you information on
domestic violence programs and shelters.
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The police must make a report saying
what happened to you. Police reports can
be used in court if your abuser is
charged with a crime.
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Get the officers' names, badge numbers,
and the report number in case you need a
copy of the report.
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A police report can be used to help you
get a PPO.
Get support from friends and family
Tell your supportive family, friends and
co-workers what has happened.
Find a safe place
It is not fair. You should not have to leave
your home because of what your abuser has
done. But sometimes it is the only way you
will be safe. There are shelters that can
help you move to a different city or state.
The police can refer you to such an
organization.
Get medical help
If you have been hurt, go to the hospital or
your doctor. Domestic violence advocates
(people to help you) may be called to the
hospital. They are there to give you
support. You may ask medical staff to call
one for you.
Medical records can be important in court
cases. They can also help you get a PPO.
Give all the information about your injuries
and who hurt you that you feel safe to give.
Special medical concerns
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Sometimes you may not even know you are
hurt.
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What seems like a small injury could be
a big one.
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If you are pregnant and you were hit in
your stomach, tell the doctor. Many
abusers hurt unborn children and the
vast majority of pregnant women are
injured and killed by the person who
impregnated them.
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Domestic violence victims can be in
danger of closed head injuries. This is
because their abusers often hit them in
the head. If any of these things happen
after a hit to the head, get medical
care right away.
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Memory loss
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Dizziness
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Problems with eyesight
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Throwing-up
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Headache that will not go away
Personalized Safety Plan
Your safety (and that of your children) is
the most important thing. Listed below are
tips to help keep you safe.
If you are in an abusive relationship, think
about...
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Having important phone numbers nearby
for you and your children. Numbers to
have are the police, hotlines, friends
and the local shelter.
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Friends or neighbors you could tell
about the abuse. Ask them to call the
police if they hear angry or violent
noises. If you have children, teach them
how to dial 911. Make up a code word
that you can use when you need help.
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Know how to get out of your home safely.
Practice ways to get out.
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ID safer places in your home where there
are exits and no weapons. If you feel
abuse is going to happen, try to get
your abuser to one of these safer
places.
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Any weapons in the house. Think about
ways that you could get them out of the
house.
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Even if you do not plan to leave, think
of where you could go. Think of how you
might leave. Try doing things that get
you out of the house - taking out the
trash, walking the pet or going to the
store. Put together a bag of things you
use everyday (see the checklist below).
Hide it where it is easy for you to get.
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Going over your safety plan often.
If you consider leaving your abuser, think
about...
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Two or more places you could go if you
leave your home.
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People who might help you if you left.
Think about people who will keep a bag
for you. Think about people who might
lend you money. Make plans for your
pets.
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Keeping change for phone calls or
getting a cell phone.
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Opening a bank account or getting a
credit card in your name.
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Again, think about how you might leave.
Try doing things that get you out of the
house - taking out the trash, walking
the family pet, or going to the store.
Practice how you would leave.
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How you could take your children with
you safely? There are times when taking
your children with you may put all of
your lives in danger. You need to
protect yourself to be able to protect
your children.
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Putting together a bag of things you use
everyday. Hide it where it is easy for
you to get.
ITEMS TO TAKE, IF POSSIBLE
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Children (if it is safe)
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Money
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Keys to car, house, work
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Extra clothes
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Medicine
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Important papers for you and your
children
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Birth certificates
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Social security cards
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School and medical records
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Bankbooks, credit cards
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Driver's license
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Car registration
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Welfare identification
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Passports, green cards, work permits
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Lease/rental agreement
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Mortgage payment book, unpaid bills
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Insurance papers
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PPO, divorce papers, custody orders
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Address book
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Pictures, jewelry, things that mean a
lot to you
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Items for your children (toys, blankets,
etc.)
Think about reviewing your safety plan
often.
If you have left your abuser, think about...
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Your safety - you still need to.
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Getting a cell phone. If you do not have
one the police, your employer, or an
anti abuse organization may be able to
provide you with one.
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Getting a PPO from the court. Keep a
copy with you all the time. Give a copy
to the police, people who take care of
your children, their schools and your
employer.
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Changing the locks. Consider putting in
stronger doors, smoke and carbon
monoxide detectors, a security system
and outside lights.
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Telling friends and neighbors that your
abuser no longer lives with you. Ask
them to call the police if they see your
abuser near your home or children.
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Telling people who take care of your
children the names of people who are
allowed to pick them up. If you have a
PPO protecting your children, give their
teachers and babysitters a copy of it.
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Telling someone at work about what has
happened. Ask that person to screen your
calls. If you have a PPO that includes
where you work, consider giving your
boss a copy of it and a picture of the
abuser. Think about and practice a
safety plan for your workplace. This
should include going to and from work.
You may need to request a safer parking
place at you place of employment.
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Not using the same stores or businesses
that you did when you were with your
abuser.
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Someone that you can call if you feel
down. Call that person if you are
thinking about going to a support group
or workshop.
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Safe way to speak with your abuser if
you must.
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Going over your safety plan often.
WARNING:
Abusers try to control their victim's lives.
When abusers feel a loss of control - like
when victims try to leave them - the abuse
often gets worse. Take special care when you
leave. Keep being careful even after you
have left.
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FAMILY SECURITY ISSUES
Shopping Centers
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NEVER PARK IN DARK AREAS.
Always park you vehicle in well-lit
areas. Never park in dark areas. When
parking in dark areas you are walking
into unknown territory. A stranger could
be waiting to strike.
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ALWAYS BE AWARE OF YOUR SURROUNDINGS IN
MALLS AND PARKING LOTS.
It is very important to pay attention to
your surroundings. Someone is always
watching you and your things. Always
carry minimal cash and valuables with
you and if possible wear less jewelry.
Never leave your things unattended.
Always keep your purse or wallet nearby
and closed.
When walking in the parking lot, pay
attention to things that seem strange.
Never let your guard down. Keep keys in
hand incase someone approaches you
trying to cause harm.
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CHECK THE VEHICLE BEFORE GETTING IN
Quickly check your vehicle before
getting in. Look through the back and
front windows, check underneath and look
for any force entry marks on the
vehicle. Always lock the doors once in.
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CARRY A CELLULAR PHONE FOR EMERGENCIES
With today's technology you can make
yourself a little safer. By carrying a
cellular phone, you can call for help or
assistance.
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TAKE A SMALL PURSE OR POCKET BOOK
Perpetrators are always searching for a
target. Targets are usually women with
large handbags. When shopping always
carry a small purse or pocket book
closed to your body for security
purposes.
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NEVER OPEN WALLET OR PURSE IN PARKING
LOT
Opening wallets and purses in parking
lots is very common, but dangerous.
Always have your keys in hand so you
won't have to search for them in your
purse.
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SHOP IN GROUPS
When shopping travel with a buddy or
several friends. By doing this you'll
unlikely be a victim of unlawful
situations such as: rape, robbery and
kidnapping.
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STORAGE SAFETY
People who carry lots of packages
through out the mall become targets for
robbery. From time to time store
packages in the trunk of your vehicle
for safe keeping. If you don't have a
trunk, store packages underneath a
blanket or clothing on the floor.
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INFORM SOMEONE OF YOUR WHEREABOUTS
By informing someone of your
whereabouts, the police can fill in
missing blanks in an investigation, when
searching for missing persons.
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ATM Machines
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ALWAYS BE OBSERVANT
Watch out for suspicious persons,
especially two or more people in a
nearby vehicle. If you see someone who
just appears to be "hanging" around the
area leave at once. Visit ATM's during
daylight hours if possible.
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USE DRIVE-UP ATM'S
It is much safer to use a drive-up ATM
machine, compared to walking up to one.
Most ATM robberies occur between
midnight and 6 a.m. Always keep all
windows closed except the one you are
using, and all doors locked when using a
drive-up ATM machine. Keep the car
running and your eyes open for
suspicious behavior. Watch the front,
sides, and rear areas of your
surroundings; if someone approaches your
vehicle on foot, cancel the transaction
and leave immediately. If you must use a
walk up ATM machine at night take a
friend, try not to go alone.
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PROTECT YOUR ATM INFORMATION
Your ATM information is very important,
if placed in the wrong hands your
account could be wiped out. If you're
using a walk-up ATM machine, stand where
the person behind you can't see you
putting your PIN (Personal
Identification Number) into the machine.
Never write your PIN on the back of the
ATM card or on a piece of paper. If
someone steals your purse or wallet they
will have quick access to your bank
account through an ATM. Never leave
receipts at the ATM, they often contain
information that could be useful for an
unlawful individual. Last but not least,
never give account or card information
over the telephone.
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LEAVE AT ONCE IF UNCOMFORTABLE
If you see something strange or out the
ordinary leave at once. Don't stand at
the ATM and count your money, take the
money and count it later.
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VERIFICATION
Always remember to keep your receipts to
help verify any charges and activities
at the end of the month.
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CARRY A CELLULAR PHONE FOR EMERGENCIES
With today's technology you can make
yourself a little safer. By carrying a
cellular phone you can call for help or
assistance.
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Identity Theft
Identity theft again tops the list of
consumer complaints, this according to a new
report from the Federal Trade Commission. In
a recent year there were approximately one
million identity theft victims. It cost
banks and credit-card companies about $5
billion because they ultimately pick up the
tab for fraudulent purchases. The average
victim will spend nearly $2,000 and 175
hours cleaning up their credit reports.
Although identity theft is impossible to
completely prevent, the following tips can
help mitigate this threat:
14 Identity Protection Tips
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Guard your social security number. It is
the key to your credit report and bank
accounts, and is the prime target of
criminals.
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Monitor your credit report. It contains
your Social Security number (SSN),
present and prior employers, a listing
of all account numbers, including those
that have been closed, and your overall
credit score.
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Shred all old bank and credit
statements, as well as "junk mail"
credit-card offers, before trashing
them.
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Remove your name from the marketing
lists of the three credit-reporting
bureaus. This reduces the number of
pre-approved credit offers you receive.
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Add your name to the National Do Not
Call registry list:
www.donotcall.gov
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Do not carry extra credit cards or other
important identity documents except when
needed.
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Photocopy both sides of your license &
credit cards so you have all the account
numbers, expiration dates and phone
numbers if you lose these items.
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Consider not mailing bill payments and
checks from home. They can be stolen
from your mailbox and your checks washed
clean in chemicals. Instead take them to
a postal drop box.
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Have your SSN removed from your personal
checks, drivers licenses & medical ID
cards.
-
Order your Social Security Earnings and
Benefits statement once a year to check
for fraud. Official Web Site: (www.socialsecurity.gov/statement).
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Examine the charges on your credit-card
statements before paying them.
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Cancel unused credit-card accounts.
Obtain your credit report to identify
current accounts.
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Never give your credit-card number or
personal information over the phone
unless you have initiated the call and
trust that business.
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Consider subscribing to a credit-report
monitoring service that will notify you
whenever someone applies for credit in
your name.
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Car Jacking
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Always park in well-lighted areas, if
you plan to arrive/leave after dark,
don't park in isolated or visually
obstructed areas near walls or heavy
foliage
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Use valet parking or an attended garage,
especially if you're a woman driving
alone
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As you walk to your car be alert to
suspicious persons sitting in cars
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Ask for a security escort if you are
alone at a shopping center
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Watch out for young males loitering in
the area (handing out flyers, etc)
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If someone tries to approach, change
direction or run to a busy store
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Follow your instincts if they tell you
to walk/run away to a busy place
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As you approach your vehicle, look
under, around, and inside your car
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If safe, open the door, enter quickly,
and lock the doors
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Don't be a target by turning your back
while loading packages into the car
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Make it your habit to always start your
car and drive away immediately
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Teach and practice with your children to
enter and exit the car quickly
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In the city, always drive with your car
doors locked and windows rolled up
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When stopped in traffic, leave room to
maneuver and escape, if necessary
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If you are bumped in traffic, by young
males, be suspicious of the accident
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Wave to follow, and drive to a gas
station or busy place before getting out
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If you are ever confronted by an armed
carjacker don’t resist
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Give up your keys or money if demanded
without resistance
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Don’t argue, fight or chase the robber.
You can be seriously injured
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Never agree to be kidnapped. Drop the
cars keys and run and scream for help
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If you are forced to drive, consider
crashing your car near a busy
intersection so bystanders can come to
your aid and call the police
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Call the police immediately to report
the crime and provide detailed
information
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Always keep doors lock. Always check the
vehicle before entering, especially the
back areas.
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Always have your keys in hand to unlock
the door quick and easily.
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Never search for keys in your purse or
bags while walking to your car.
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Never park in dark areas. Always park in
well-lit areas.
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Always have a cellular phone handy for
emergencies.
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Never pick up hitchhikers.
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If you notice you’re being followed,
DO NOT DRIVE HOME! Drive to the
nearest business, police department or
fire department for help.
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Keep your vehicle in good working
condition, to include tune-ups and
tires.
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Always make sure you have enough fuel.
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Always have a map handy.
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Do not use cellular phones while driving
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Do not fix or apply makeup while
driving.
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If you park your car outside of the
garage at night, take your garage door
opener inside with you.
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Always use your signals
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If in distress use your emergency lights
or flashers.
-
Always be courteous to other driver to
avoid road rage.
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Do not go to rest stops at night alone.
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Always check the vehicle before
entering, especially the back areas.
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Always have your keys in hand to unlock
the door quick and easily.
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Never search for keys in your purse or
bags while walking to your car.
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Never park in dark areas. Always park in
well-lit areas.
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Always have a cellular phone handy for
emergencies.
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PROTECTING YOUR HOME
Whether you live in a rural or urban
setting, every home in every neighborhood is
a potential target for burglary. Most homes
contain valuables that are very attractive
to burglars: televisions, stereos, cash and
computers. Justice Department statistics say
that an average family has a one-in-four
chance of being the victim of a serious
crime each year. Even worse, burglary is
often compounded by violence. If the
exterior doors of your home are hollow-core,
replace them with solid wood, fiberglass or
steel.
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Make sure exterior door hinges are on
the inside rather than the outside -
where an intruder can remove the pins
and pull the door out of the frame.
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If you have double-hung windows, bolt
the upper and lower sashes together or
insert a metal bar in the track to
prevent opening.
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To secure sliding glass doors, add a
bolt lock or use a "charley bar" to
block the door closed.
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Use bars to secure basement or garage
doors and add bars to basement windows.
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Most home burglaries occur between 8
a.m. and 5 p.m., so get in the habit of
locking all doors and windows whenever
you go out.
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Invest in high-quality, name-brand
deadbolt locks for all exterior doors.
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If you have a double-cylinder deadbolt
that is operated by a key both inside
and out, keep the key near the door so
every family member can find it and exit
quickly in case of fire.
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Alarm systems are an effective
deterrent. Nine out of ten convicted
burglars agree they'd avoid a house
protected by an alarm system.
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Security system decals and signs are
also an effective deterrent.
-
According to the FBI, more burglaries
occur in July and August than in any
other months.
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Make sure your security system includes
a loud inside alarm, detectors at all
exterior doors, and motion sensors in
the master bedroom and main living
areas.
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Never leave an answering machine message
indicating you're not at home. Instead,
just say you "can't come to the phone."
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Use timers to turn lights, televisions
and sound systems on and off at
different times to give your home a
"lived-in look" when you are away.
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Install motion-detecting outdoor
floodlights around your home. Remember
to mount them high enough to prevent
intruders from disabling them.
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If there's a Neighborhood Watch Program
in your community, join it. If there's
not, start one.
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Report any suspicious persons or
vehicles to your local police.
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Get to know your neighbors.
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If you have elderly or incapacitated
friends or relatives, check to make sure
their security devices are all in good
working order.
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Some burglars scan newspapers for
wedding and funeral announcements and
special community and holiday events
that might take you out of your home, so
be especially careful on these
occasions.
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Don't let mail, newspapers or flyers
accumulate while you're away, tipping
off criminals. Have the post office hold
mail, have newspapers suspended, and
have a neighbor or friend clear away
flyers.
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To a burglar, an empty trash can mean
you're away. Keep some trash on hand,
and consider asking a neighbor to set
out trash for pick-up at your house.
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Don't leave valuables in sight through
windows, where they will tempt burglars.
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Use an etching pen to mark an ID number,
like your driver's license number, on
valuables.
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Make an inventory of valuables in your
household and store it somewhere other
than your home, such as in a safe
deposit box.
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Leave curtains slightly parted so your
house doesn't have an empty look.
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Never open the door to a stranger.
Install peepholes in all exterior doors
so you can identify whoever is outside.
Do not rely on a door safety chain,
because these can be broken easily.
-
Ask for I. D. from service
representatives who come to your home,
and if they don't have it, check with
their company to verify identity before
letting them in.
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If you're planning to go away, be
careful whom you tell.
-
When vacationing, leave a car in your
driveway or arrange for a neighbor to
keep a car there and move it around from
time to time.
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Have someone mow your lawn, rake leaves
and shovel snow while you are away.
-
Prune overgrown trees and shrubs to
eliminate hiding places for intruders.
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Many garage door openers respond to
common codes, so follow the
manufacturer's instructions to program
yours with a unique code no burglar's
opener will match.
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Keep your garage door locked at all
times, preferably with a deadbolt lock.
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Thieves always look in mailboxes, under
doormats and above doorways for keys.
Don't make it easy for them to get into
your home.
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Don't put your name or address on your
key ring, because it might lead a thief
right to your door with key in hand.
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When having a car parked or serviced,
leave only the car keys, taking your
house keys with you — burglars “borrow”
such keys long enough to copy them!
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If there's any chance a previous
resident may still have keys to your
house, re-key the locks. Do the same if
you lose your key chain or have any
reason to suspect that a key to your
house could be in the wrong hands.
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TRAVELING ABROAD
When you
travel abroad, the odds are in your favor
that you will have a safe and incident-free
trip. However, crime and violence, as well
as unexpected difficulties, do happen to
U.S. citizens in all parts of the world. No
one is better able to tell you this than the
U.S. consular officers who work in more than
250 U.S. embassies and consulates around the
globe. Every day of the year, U.S. embassies
and consulates receive calls from American
citizens in distress.
Happily,
most problems can be solved over the
telephone or by a visit of the U.S. citizen
to the Consular Section of the nearest U.S.
embassy or consulate. But, there are less
fortunate occasions when U.S. diplomats are
called on to meet U.S. citizens at foreign
police stations, hospitals, prisons and even
at morgues. In these cases, the assistance
that diplomats can offer is specific but
limited.
In the hope
of helping you avoid serious difficulties
during your abroad, we have prepared the
following travel tips.
Thank you
for taking the time to become an informed
traveler. We wish you a safe and wonderful
journey!
BEFORE
YOU GO
What to Bring
Safety begins when
you pack. To avoid being a target, dress
conservatively. Don't wear expensive looking
jewelry. A flashy wardrobe or one that is
too casual can mark you as a tourist. As
much as possible, avoid the appearance of
affluence.
Always try to
travel light. You can move more quickly and
will be more likely to have a free hand. You
will also be less tired and less likely to
set your luggage down, leaving it
unattended.
Carry the minimum
amount of valuables necessary for your trip
and plan a place or places to conceal them.
Your passport, cash and credit cards are
most secure when locked in a hotel safe.
When you have to carry them on your person,
you may wish to conceal them in several
places rather than putting them all in one
wallet or pouch. Avoid handbags, fanny packs
and outside pockets that are easy targets
for thieves. Inside pockets and a sturdy
shoulder bag with the strap worn across your
chest are somewhat safer. One of the safest
places to carry valuables is in a pouch or
money belt worn under your clothing.
If you wear
glasses, pack an extra pair. Bring them and
any medicines you need in your carry-on
luggage. Also have a copy of your passport
and other travel documents with you and left
with a trusted person at your home or
office.
To avoid problems
when passing through customs, keep medicines
in their original, labeled containers. Bring
copies of your prescriptions and the generic
names for the drugs. If a medication is
unusual or contains narcotics, carry a
letter from your doctor attesting to your
need to take the drug. If you have any doubt
about the legality of carrying a certain
drug into a country, consult the embassy or
consulate of that country first.
Bring travelers
checks and one or two major credit cards
instead of cash.
Pack an extra set
of passport photos along with a photocopy of
your passport information page to make
replacement of your passport easier in the
event it is lost or stolen.
Put your name,
address and telephone numbers inside and
outside of each piece of luggage. Use
covered luggage tags to avoid casual
observation of your identity or nationality.
If possible, lock your luggage.
Consider getting a
telephone calling card. It is a convenient
way of keeping in touch. If you have one,
verify that you can use it from your
overseas location(s). Access numbers to U.S.
operators are published in many
international newspapers. Find out your
access number before you go. You can also
rent an international cellular telephone at
most major international airports for the
length of your visit in another country.
What to Leave
Behind
Don't bring
anything you would hate to lose. Leave at
home:
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valuable
or expensive-looking jewelry
-
irreplaceable family objects
-
all
unnecessary credit cards
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Social
Security card, library cards, and
similar items you may routinely carry in
your wallet.
Leave a copy of
your itinerary with family or friends at
home in case they need to contact you in an
emergency, again along with a copy of your
passport and your immunization record.
A Few Things to
Bring AND Leave Behind
Make two
photocopies of your passport identification
page, airline tickets, driver's license and
the credit cards that you plan to bring with
you. Leave one photocopy of this data with
family or friends at home; pack the other in
a place separate from where you carry your
valuables.
Leave a copy of
the serial numbers of your travelers' checks
with a friend or relative at home. Carry
your copy with you in a separate place and,
as you cash the checks, cross them off the
list.
What to Learn
About Before You Go
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Security. The Department of State's
Consular Information Sheets are
available for every country of the
world. They describe entry requirements,
currency regulations, unusual health
conditions, the crime and security
situation, political disturbances, areas
of instability, and special information
about driving and road conditions. They
also provide addresses and emergency
telephone numbers for U.S. embassies and
consulates. In general, the Sheets do
not give advice. Instead, they describe
conditions so travelers can make
informed decisions about their trips.
In some dangerous situations, however,
the Department of State recommends that
Americans defer travel to a country. In
such a case, a Travel Warning is
issued for the country in addition to
its Consular Information Sheet.
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Public
Announcements are a means to
disseminate information about relatively
short-term and/or trans-national
conditions posing significant risks to
the security of American travelers. They
are issued when there is a perceived
threat, even if it does not involve
Americans as a particular target group.
In the past, Public Announcements have
been issued to deal with short-term
coups, pre-election disturbances,
violence by terrorists and anniversary
dates of specific terrorist events.
You can access Consular Information
Sheets, Travel Warnings and Public
Announcements 24-hours a day in several
ways.
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Internet
The most convenient source of
information about travel and
consular services is the Consular
Affairs home page. The web site
address is
http://travel.state.gov. If you
do not have access to the Internet
at home, work or school, your local
library may provide access to the
Internet.
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Telephone
The Overseas Citizens Services call
center at 1-888-407-4747 can answer
general inquiries on safety and
security overseas. This number is
available from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00
p.m. Eastern Time, Monday through
Friday (except U.S. federal
holidays). Callers who are unable to
use toll-free numbers, such as those
calling from overseas, may obtain
information and assistance during
these hours by calling
1-317-472-2328.
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Mail/In Person
Consular Information Sheets, Travel
Warnings and Public Announcements
are available at any of the regional
passport agencies and U.S. embassies
and consulates abroad, or, by
writing and sending a
self-addressed, stamped envelope to
the Office of American Citizens
Services, Bureau of Consular
Affairs, U.S. Department of State,
Washington, DC 20520.
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Local
Laws and Customs. When you leave the
United States, you are subject to the
laws of the country where you are.
Therefore, before you go, learn as much
as you can about the local laws and
customs of the places you plan to visit.
Good resources are your library, your
travel agent, and the embassies,
consulates or tourist bureaus of the
countries you will visit. In addition,
keep track of what is being reported in
the media about recent developments in
those countries.
THINGS TO ARRANGE
BEFORE YOU GO
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Your
Itinerary .
As much as possible, plan to stay in
larger hotels that have more elaborate
security. Safety experts recommend
booking a room from the second to
seventh floors above ground level to
deter easy entrance from outside, but
low enough for fire equipment to reach.
Because take-off and landing are the
most dangerous times of a flight, book
non-stop flights when possible. When
there is a choice of airport or airline,
ask your travel agent about comparative
safety records.
-
Legal
Documents.
Have your affairs at home in order. If
you leave a current will, insurance
documents, and power of attorney with
your family or a friend, you can feel
secure about traveling and will be
prepared for any emergency that may
arise while you are away. If you have
minor children, consider making
guardianship arrangements for them.
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Credit.
Make a note of the credit limit on each
credit card that you bring. Make certain
not to charge over that amount on your
trip. In some countries, Americans have
been arrested for innocently exceeding
their credit limit. Ask your credit card
company how to report the loss of your
card from abroad. 800 numbers do not
work from abroad, but your company
should have a number that you can call
while you are overseas.
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Insurance. Find out if your personal
property insurance covers you for loss
or theft abroad. More importantly, check
on whether your health insurance covers
you abroad. Medicare and Medicaid do not
provide payment for medical care outside
the U.S. Even if your health insurance
will reimburse you for medical care that
you pay for abroad, normal health
insurance does not pay for medical
evacuation from a remote area or from a
country where medical facilities are
inadequate. Consider purchasing one of
the short-term health and emergency
assistance policies designed for
travelers. Also, make sure that the plan
you purchase includes medical evacuation
in the event of an accident or serious
illness.
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PRECAUTIONS TO
TAKE WHILE TRAVELING
Safety on the
Street
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Use the
same common sense traveling overseas
that you would at home. Be especially
cautious in or avoid areas where you are
likely to be victimized. These include
crowded subways, train stations,
elevators, tourist sites, market places,
festivals and marginal areas of cities.
-
Don't use
short cuts, narrow alleys or poorly-lit
streets. Try not to travel alone at
night.
-
Avoid
public demonstrations and other civil
disturbances.
-
Keep a low
profile and avoid loud conversations or
arguments. Do not discuss travel plans
or other personal matters with
strangers.
-
Avoid scam
artists. Beware of strangers who
approach you, offering bargains or to be
your guide.
-
Beware of
pickpockets. They often have an
accomplice who will:
-
jostle
you
-
ask
you for directions or the time
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point
to something spilled on your
clothing
-
or
distract you by creating a
disturbance.
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A child or
even a woman carrying a baby can be a
pickpocket. Beware of groups of vagrant
children who create a distraction while
picking your pocket.
-
Wear the
shoulder strap of your bag across your
chest and walk with the bag away from
the curb to avoid drive-by
purse-snatchers.
-
Try to
seem purposeful when you move about.
Even if you are lost, act as if you know
where you are going. When possible, ask
directions only from individuals in
authority.
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Know how
to use a pay telephone and have the
proper change or token on hand.
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Learn a
few phrases in the local language so you
can signal your need for help, the
police, or a doctor. Make a note of
emergency telephone numbers you may
need: police, fire, your hotel, and the
nearest U.S. embassy or consulate.
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If you are
confronted, don't fight back. Give up
your valuables. Your money and passport
can be replaced, but you cannot.
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Safety in Your
Hotel
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Keep your
hotel door locked at all times. Meet
visitors in the lobby. Check your window
in your hotel room to see that it is
secure. This is especially true if your
room is on the first or second floor or
can be accessed from the roof
-
Do not
leave money and other valuables in your
hotel room while you are out. Use the
hotel safe if there is not one in your
room.
-
Let
someone know when you expect to return
if you are out late at night.
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If you are
alone, do not get on an elevator if
there is a suspicious-looking person
inside.
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Read the
fire safety instructions in your hotel
room. Know how to report a fire. Be sure
you know where the nearest fire exit and
alternate exits are located. Count the
doors between your room and the nearest
exit. This could be a life saver if you
have to crawl through a smoke-filled
corridor.
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Safety on Public
Transportation
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If a
country has a pattern of tourists being
targeted by criminals on public
transport, that information is mentioned
in the Consular Information Sheets under
the "Crime Information" section.
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Taxis
. Only take taxis clearly identified
with official markings. Beware of
unmarked cabs or people who offer you a
ride.
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Trains
. Well organized, systematic robbery of
passengers on trains along popular
tourists routes is a serious problem. It
is more common at night and especially
on overnight trains.
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If you see
your way being blocked by a stranger and
another person is very close to you from
behind, move away. This can happen in
the corridor of the train or on the
platform or station.
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Do not
accept food or drink from strangers.
Criminals have been known to drug food
or drink offered to passengers.
Criminals may also spray sleeping gas in
train compartments.
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Where
possible, lock your compartment. If it
cannot be locked securely, take turns
sleeping in shifts with your traveling
companions. If that is not possible,
stay awake. If you must sleep
unprotected, tie down your luggage,
strap your valuables to you and sleep on
top of them as much as possible.
-
Do not be
afraid to alert authorities if you feel
threatened in any way. Extra police are
often assigned to ride trains on routes
where crime is a serious problem.
-
Buses
. The same type of criminal activity
found on trains can be found on public
buses on popular tourist routes. For
example, tourists have been drugged and
robbed while sleeping on buses or in bus
stations. In some countries whole bus
loads of passengers have been held up
and robbed by gangs of bandits.
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Safety When You
Drive
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When you
rent a car, don't go for the exotic;
choose a type commonly available
locally. Where possible, ask that
markings that identify it as a rental
car be removed. Make certain it is in
good repair. If available, choose a car
with universal door locks and power
windows, features that give the driver
better control of access to the car. An
air conditioner, when available, is also
a safety feature, allowing you to drive
with windows closed. Thieves can and do
snatch purses through open windows of
moving cars.
-
Keep car
doors locked at all times. Wear seat
belts.
-
As much as
possible, avoid driving at night.
-
Don't
leave valuables in the car. If you must
carry things with you, keep them out of
sight locked in the trunk.
-
Don't park
your car on the street overnight. If the
hotel or municipality does not have a
parking garage or other secure area,
select a well-lit area.
-
Never pick
up hitchhikers.
-
Don't get
out of the car if there are suspicious
looking individuals nearby. Drive away.
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Patterns of Crime
Against Motorists
-
In many
places frequented by tourists, including
areas of southern Europe, victimization
of motorists has been refined to an art.
Where it is a problem, U.S. embassies
are aware of it and consular officers
try to work with local authorities to
warn the public about the dangers. In
some locations, these efforts at public
awareness have paid off, reducing the
frequency of incidents. You may also
wish to ask your rental car agency for
advice on avoiding robbery while
visiting tourist destinations.
-
Carjackers
and thieves operate at gas stations,
parking lots, in city traffic and along
the highway. Be suspicious of anyone who
hails you or tries to get your attention
when you are in or near your car.
-
Criminals
use ingenious ploys. They may pose as
good Samaritans, offering help for tires
that they claim are flat or that they
have made flat. Or they may flag down a
motorist, ask for assistance, and then
steal the rescuer's luggage or car.
Usually they work in groups, one person
carrying on the pretense while the
others rob you.
-
Other
criminals get your attention with abuse,
either trying to drive you off the road,
or causing an "accident" by rear-ending
you or creating a "fender bender."
-
In some
urban areas, thieves don't waste time on
ploys, they simply smash car windows at
traffic lights, grab your valuables or
your car and get away. In cities around
the world, "defensive driving" has come
to mean more than avoiding auto
accidents; it means keeping an eye out
for potentially criminal pedestrians,
cyclists and scooter riders.
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How to Handle
Money Safely
-
To avoid
carrying large amounts of cash, change
your travelers' checks only as you need
currency. Countersign travelers' checks
only in front of the person who will
cash them.
-
Do not
flash large amounts of money when paying
a bill. Make sure your credit card is
returned to you after each transaction.
-
Deal only
with authorized agents when you exchange
money, buy airline tickets or purchase
souvenirs. Do not change money on the
black market.
-
If your
possessions are lost or stolen, report
the loss immediately to the local
police. Keep a copy of the police report
for insurance claims and as an
explanation of your plight. After
reporting missing items to the police,
report the loss or theft of:
-
travelers' checks to the nearest
agent of the issuing company
-
credit
cards to the issuing company
-
airline tickets to the airline or
travel agent
-
passport to the nearest U.S. embassy
or consulate.
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How to Avoid Legal
Difficulties
When you are in a
foreign country, you are subject to its laws
and are under its jurisdiction NOT
the protection of the U.S. Constitution.
You can be
arrested overseas for actions that may be
either legal or considered minor infractions
in the United States. Be aware of what is
considered criminal in the country where you
are. Consular Information Sheets include
information on unusual patterns of arrests
in various countries when appropriate.
Some of the
offenses for which U.S. citizens have been
arrested abroad are:
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Drug
Violations.
More than 1/3 of U.S. citizens
incarcerated abroad are held on drug
charges. Some countries do not
distinguish between possession and
trafficking. Many countries have
mandatory sentences - even for
possession of a small amount of
marijuana or cocaine. A number of
Americans have been arrested for
possessing prescription drugs,
particularly tranquilizers and
amphetamines, that they purchased
legally in certain Asian countries and
then brought to some countries in the
Middle East where they are illegal.
Other U.S. citizens have been arrested
for purchasing prescription drugs abroad
in quantities that local authorities
suspected were for commercial use. If in
doubt about foreign drug laws, ask local
authorities or the nearest U.S. embassy
or consulate.
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Possession of Firearms.
The places where U.S. citizens most
often come into difficulties for illegal
possession of firearms are nearby -
Mexico, Canada and the Caribbean.
Sentences for possession of firearms in
Mexico can be up to 30 years. In
general, firearms, even those legally
registered in the U.S., cannot be
brought into a country unless a permit
is first obtained from the embassy or a
consulate of that country and the
firearm is registered with foreign
authorities on arrival. (Note: If you
take firearms or ammunition to another
country, you cannot bring them back into
the U.S. unless you register them with
U.S. Customs before you leave the U.S.)
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Photography.
In many countries you can be harassed or
detained for photographing such things
as police and military installations,
government buildings, border areas and
transportation facilities. If you are in
doubt, ask permission before taking
photographs.
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Purchasing Antiques.
Americans have been arrested for
purchasing souvenirs that were, or
looked like, antiques and which local
customs authorities believed were
national treasures. This is especially
true in Turkey, Egypt and Mexico. In
countries where antiques are important,
document your purchases as reproductions
if that is the case, or if they are
authentic, secure the necessary export
permit (usually from the national
museum.)
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Terrorism
Terrorist acts occur at random and
unpredictably, making it impossible to
protect yourself absolutely. The first
and best protection is to avoid travel
to unsafe areas where there has been a
persistent record of terrorist attacks
or kidnapping. The vast majority of
foreign states have good records of
maintaining public order and protecting
residents and visitors within their
borders from terrorism.
Most terrorist attacks are the result of
long and careful planning. Just as a car
thief will first be attracted to an
unlocked car with the key in the
ignition, terrorists are looking for
defenseless, easily accessible targets
who follow predictable patterns. The
chances that a tourist, traveling with
an unpublished program or itinerary,
would be the victim of terrorism are
slight. In addition, many terrorist
groups, seeking publicity for political
causes within their own country or
region, may not be looking for American
targets.
Nevertheless, the following pointers may
help you avoid becoming a target of
opportunity. They should be considered
as adjuncts to the tips listed in the
previous sections on how to protect
yourself against the far greater
likelihood of being a victim of crime.
These precautions may provide some
degree of protection, and can serve as
practical and psychological deterrents
to would-be terrorists.
-
Schedule direct flights if possible
and avoid stops in high-risk
airports or areas. Consider other
options for travel, such as trains.
-
Be
aware of what you discuss with
strangers or what may be overheard
by others.
-
Try to
minimize the time spent in the
public area of an airport, which is
a less protected area. Move quickly
from the check-in counter to the
secured areas. On arrival, leave the
airport as soon as possible.
-
As
much as possible, avoid luggage
tags, dress and behavior that may
identify you as an American.
-
Keep
an eye out for suspicious abandoned
packages or briefcases. Report them
to airport security or other
authorities and leave the area
promptly.
-
Avoid
obvious terrorist targets such as
places where Americans and
Westerners are known to congregate.
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Travel to
High-Risk Areas
If you must travel in an area where there
has been a history of terrorist attacks or
kidnapping, make it a habit to:
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Discuss
with your family what they would do in
the event of an emergency. Make sure
your affairs are in order before leaving
home.
-
Register
with the U.S. embassy or consulate upon
arrival.
-
Remain
friendly but be cautious about
discussing personal matters, your
itinerary or program.
-
Leave no
personal or business papers in your
hotel room.
-
Watch for
people following you or "loiterers"
observing your comings and goings.
-
Keep a
mental note of safe havens, such as
police stations, hotels, hospitals.
-
Let
someone else know what your travel plans
are. Keep them informed if you change
your plans.
-
Avoid
predictable times and routes of travel
and report any suspicious activity to
local police, and the nearest U.S.
embassy or consulate.
-
Select
your own taxi cabs at random. Don't take
a vehicle that is not clearly identified
as a taxi. Compare the face of the
driver with the one posted on his or her
license.
-
If
possible, travel with others.
-
Be sure of
the identity of visitors before opening
the door of your hotel room. Don't meet
strangers at unknown or remote
locations.
-
Refuse
unexpected packages.
-
Formulate
a plan of action for what you will do if
a bomb explodes or there is gunfire
nearby.
-
Check for
loose wires or other suspicious activity
around your car.
-
Be sure
your vehicle is in good operating
condition in case you need to resort to
high-speed or evasive driving.
-
Drive with
car windows closed in crowded streets.
Bombs can be thrown through open
windows.
-
If you are
ever in a situation where somebody
starts shooting, drop to the floor or
get down as low as possible. Don't move
until you are sure the danger has
passed. Do not attempt to help rescuers
and do not pick up a weapon. If
possible, shield yourself behind or
under a solid object. If you must move,
crawl on your stomach.
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Hijacking/Hostage
Situations
While every hostage situation is different,
some considerations are important.
The U.S. government's policy is firm. We
will negotiate, but not make concessions -
to do so would only increase the risk of
further hostage-taking. When Americans are
abducted overseas, we look to the host
government to exercise its responsibility
under international law to protect all
persons within its territories and to bring
about the safe release of hostages. We work
closely with these governments from the
outset of a hostage-taking incident to
ensure that our citizens and other innocent
victims are released as quickly and safely
as possible.
Normally, the most dangerous phases of a
hijacking or hostage situation are the
beginning and, if there is a rescue attempt,
the end. At the outset, the terrorists
typically are tense, high-strung and may
behave irrationally. It is extremely
important that you remain calm and alert and
manage your own behavior.
Avoid resistance and sudden or threatening
movements. Do not struggle or try to escape
unless you are certain of being successful.
-
Make a
concerted effort to relax. Prepare
yourself mentally, physically and
emotionally for the possibility of a
long ordeal.
-
Try to
remain inconspicuous, avoid direct eye
contact and the appearance of observing
your captors' actions.
-
Avoid
alcoholic beverages. Consume little food
and drink.
-
Consciously put yourself in a mode of
passive cooperation. Talk normally. Do
not complain, avoid belligerency, and
comply with all orders and instructions.
-
If
questioned, keep your answers short.
Don't volunteer information or make
unnecessary overtures.
-
Don't try
to be a hero, endangering yourself and
others.
-
Maintain
your sense of personal dignity and
gradually increase your requests for
personal comforts. Make these requests
in a reasonable low-key manner.
-
If you are
involved in a lengthier, drawn-out
situation, try to establish a rapport
with your captors, avoiding political
discussions or other confrontational
subjects.
-
Establish
a daily program of mental and physical
activity. Don't be afraid to ask for
anything you need or want - medicines,
books, pencils, papers.
-
Eat what
they give you, even if it does not look
or taste appetizing. A loss of appetite
and weight is normal.
-
Think
positively. Avoid a sense of despair.
Rely on your inner resources. Remember
that you are a valuable commodity to
your captors. It is important to them to
keep you alive and well.
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ASSISTANCE ABROAD
If you plan to stay more than two weeks in
one place, if you are in an area
experiencing civil unrest or a natural
disaster, or, if you are planning travel to
a remote area, it is advisable to register
at the Consular Section of the nearest U.S.
embassy or consulate. This will make it
easier if someone at home needs to locate
you urgently or in the unlikely event that
you need to be evacuated in an emergency. It
will also facilitate the issuance of a new
passport should yours be lost or stolen.
The Consular Section can provide updated
information on the security situation in a
country.
If you are ill or injured, contact the
nearest U.S. embassy or consulate for a list
of local physicians and medical facilities.
If the illness is serious, consular officers
can help you find medical assistance from
this list and, at your request, will inform
your family or friends. If necessary, a
consul can assist in the transfer of funds
from family or friends in the United States.
Payment of hospital and other medical
expenses is your responsibility.
If you run out of money overseas and have no
other options, consular officers can help
you get in touch with your family, friends,
bank or employer and inform them how to wire
funds to you.
Should you find yourself in legal
difficulty, contact a consular officer
immediately. Consular officers cannot serve
as attorneys, give legal advice, or get you
out of jail. What they can do is provide a
list of local attorneys who speak English
and who may have had experience in
representing U.S. citizens. If you are
arrested, consular officials will visit you,
advise you of your rights under local laws
and ensure that you are held under humane
conditions and are treated fairly under
local law. A consular officer will contact
your family or friends if you desire. When
necessary, consuls can transfer money from
home for you and will try to get relief for
you, including food and clothing in
countries where this is a problem. If you
are detained, remember that under
international treaties and customary
international law, you have the right to
talk to the U.S. consul. If you are denied
this right, be persistent. Try to have
someone get in touch for you.
Travelers are prime targets for criminals.
Here are some ways to protect yourself at
airports, on the road and in your hotel
room.
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Airport Safety
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Keep your
eye on your bags—especially a laptop
computer or other valuable gear — at all
times. Don't let anyone but uniformed
airline personnel handle or watch them.
-
Be wary of
mishaps, like someone bumping you or
spilling a drink ... they may be staged
to set you up for a robbery.
-
Clutch
your pocketbook close to your body or
carry your wallet in an inside front
pocket ... or wear a concealed money
pouch.
-
Record the
contents of checked luggage and carry
valuables onto the plane with you.
-
Don't draw
attention to jewelry, cameras or other
expensive items.
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Road Safety
-
Study your
route on a map before you start.
-
If using a
rental car, make sure it is in good
operating condition and learn how to
operate all controls before starting
out.
-
Keep maps
and rental agreements concealed, and
store luggage out of sight in the trunk.
-
Keep car
doors locked and park in lighted areas
near entrances.
-
Have keys
ready so you can enter the car quickly
... after checking the back seat and
floors.
-
If bumped
by another car, rather than getting out
you might want to signal the other
driver to follow you to a police station
or other place where you would feel
safe.
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Hotel Safety
-
Don't
leave your luggage unattended.
-
Make sure
your room has a peephole and deadbolt
lock on the door and window locks ...
and use them.
-
Caution
hotel personnel against saying your room
number within earshot of others.
-
In case of
emergency, know where exits, elevators
and public phones are located.
-
Leave
valuables at home or keep them in the
hotel safe.
-
If going
out, ask hotel staff about neighborhood
safety and areas to avoid.
-
If someone
claiming to be a hotel employee shows up
at your door unexpectedly, don't let
them in without first calling the front
desk for confirmation.
-
Don't
display your room key or leave it where
it may get stolen.
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PROTECTING YOUR SMALL BUSINESS
Burglary
65% of nonresidential burglaries occur
during the nighttime.
-
Light all exterior points of entry with
permanent fixtures that are difficult to
reach or tamper with.
-
Light the interior of your business
enough that someone outside the building
could see someone inside.
-
Install a fence or hedge – it's your
first line of defense.
-
You should be able to see through
the fence.
-
Hedges should be wide, rather than
high, and of a prickly, thorny
variety.
-
Install window locks designed and
positioned so they cannot be reached and
unlocked after breaking the glass.
-
Install safety glass (glazing). It is
highly effective at deterring break-ins.
-
Install motion detectors to sense
movement inside the building.
-
Install entry protecting alarms to
detect the breaking of windows and the
opening of doors.
-
Install point protectors (such as
pressure-switch mats) to detect when
someone enters a restricted area, such
as by a cash register.
-
Install a deadbolt lock/latch in each
exterior door.
-
Lock overhead and receiving doors with
high-quality padlocks.
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Internal Theft
Your employees are 15 times more likely to
steal from you than your customers.
-
Screen all employees before hiring them
– it's the best defense against internal
theft.
-
Never have fewer than two people close
up at night.
-
Have all keys distributed to employees
engraved with the words "Do Not
Duplicate."
-
Watch for warning signs – employees who:
-
Are living beyond their means
-
Habitually violate company policies
-
Have a substance abuse problem
-
Are chronic liars
-
Seem immature or troubled
-
May have cause to feel wronged
-
Never rule anyone out – anyone could be
a thief.
-
Use a card access system rather than
traditional keys – access cards can't
easily be duplicated.
-
Install a closed-circuit television
system. It allows you to monitor
employees and serves as a very strong
deterrent when employees know one is in
place.
Retail
Supervise the Selling Floor
-
Be on the sales floor at least 80
percent of the day.
-
When walking the floor, continually
observe and respond to mismarked
merchandise, incorrect price signs,
unattended price gun, loose price
tickets, open showcases, unlocked
security fixtures, empty packages, known
shoplifters, suspicious customers,
merchandise concealed for later pickup,
merchandise without security tags,
inoperative security equipment,
salespeople not following procedures,
fitting room attendants off their post,
customers not being serviced, cashiers
not properly ringing sales, coupons not
controlled, loose bags or gift boxes
accessible to customers, security tape
not secured, guards not attentive to
their duties, unpaid-for merchandise
under wrap desks, employee handbags
under counters, unauthorized checks or
voids or refunds . . . and more.
-
Encourage employees to keep their heads
up and eyes open.
-
Help employees to do a good job and take
pride in their accomplishments.
Give Shoplifters an Uneasy Feeling
-
Instruct employees to greet or
acknowledge every customer who enters
their department.
-
Provide personal customer service to as
many customers as possible.
-
Instruct floor personnel to make
frequent eye contact with customers who
wish to browse on their own.
-
Assign zones for staff coverage so that
floor personnel don't leave vulnerable
areas unattended.
-
Instruct floor personnel to make a
pleasant comment to every customer about
the item(s) being taken into the fitting
room, so that the customer is aware of
what is expected to be either returned
or purchased.
-
Maintain 100 percent compliance when
placing security tags on vulnerable
merchandise.
-
Install added security measures in
"blind spots" around the store (e.g.,
bright lighting, security mirrors,
anti-shoplifting signs, and camera).
-
Lower displays around the cash register
that block the cashier's view of the
selling floor.
-
If your store is large in size, make
frequent announcements over the public
address (PA) system, such as "Security
to area 4," even if your store doesn't
have security personnel or an area 4.
-
Issue a criminal trespass warning to all
known shoplifters who you want to be
prohibited (by law) from entering your
store again. Let shoplifters know, by
work and deed, that your store
prosecutes all offenders.
-
Encourage a close working relationship
between employees and loss prevention
personnel.
Reduce Opportunities for Employee Theft
-
Only authorize a refund in the presence
of the customer.
-
Go behind the counter to authorize a
void or "overring" so you can observe
potential problems (e.g., bagged
merchandise which could be handed out to
friends, consumables not paid for, money
not in its proper slot in the till or
too much cash in the drawer).
-
Sign voids or "overrings" only while the
customer is present.
-
Inspect trash dumpster at random but at
least weekly, following trash collection
but prior to pickup.
-
Don't allow employees to write up, ring
up or wrap purchases for themselves or
relatives.
-
Review cash over/short reports every day
and respond appropriately.
-
Provide employees with lockers or other
secure area for employee handbags,
purchases, coats and other belongings
that are prohibited on the sales floor.
-
Require at least two employees to open
and close the store, simultaneously.
-
Never allow merchandise to leave the
store "on approval," without being
purchased first.
-
Prohibit hand-carried merchandise
transfers from being taken out of the
store without proper paperwork.
-
Instruct all employees to enter and
leave through a designated employee
door.
-
Require managers and employees to always
present their belongings for inspection
before leaving.
-
Require that all merchandise to be taken
out of the store for alteration,
cleaning, style show or other purpose,
be signed in and out and authorized on a
merchandise control log.
-
Do not allow employees to wear store
merchandise not purchased.
-
Prohibit employees from browsing behind
counters or in back areas of departments
that they don't work or sell in.
-
Prohibit employees from trying on
merchandise without the knowledge of a
manager or other supervisor.
-
Never allow only one person to write the
sale, ring it up, wrap the merchandise
and ship it out of the store.
-
Secure all shipping labels unless part
of an authorized, register-validated
sales receipt.
-
Don't allow wrapped merchandise to be
hand delivered to UPS or the post office
unless authorized and recorded on a
store delivery log.
-
Limit employee access to markdown pens
and remarking machines when access is
not needed.
-
Limit the number of employees authorized
to ring up other employees' sales,
reducing the opportunities for
collusion.
-
Require management authorization of
employee purchase transactions.
-
Occasionally offer to assist employees
in completing a customer transaction to
verify that the amount paid and the
merchandise in the bag is correct
(particularly when suspicious).
-
Never allow employees to work with an
open cash drawer. They must close the
register drawer before ringing the next
sale.
-
Limit the number of "NO SALE" rings by
defining under what special conditions
they will be permitted.
-
Review daily exception reports
highlighting excessive voids, overrings,
no sales, refunds and other suspicious
activity.
-
Require all receipts to be given to
customers.
-
Require employees to immediately destroy
(i.e., tear twice in half) any receipts
left by a customer.
-
Prohibit employees from using another
employee's I.D. number for any purpose
whatsoever.
-
Prohibit cashiers from taking a reading
on their cash register. If register
readings cannot be done by a supervisor,
require cashiers to count their cash,
enter the amount on the register and
place the cash in a locked deposit bag
before taking a reading.
-
Don't allow register transaction numbers
to be cleared by anyone at the end of
the day. They should continue ad
infinitum to ensure that the register
tape was not removed from the register.
-
Prohibit the possession of keys to bank
deposit bags when the bank is
responsible for opening locked deposit
bags. There should be no reason for
managers or anyone to open a locked
deposit bag, whether full or empty.
-
Make bank deposit drops daily . . . no
exceptions.
-
Limit access to keys which disarm the
fire exit(s) security crash bar
alarm(s).
-
Keep perimeter doors alarmed during
night-fill operation and when the store
is not open to customers. Supervisor
authorization should be required to
leave the store.
-
Change door cores on locks to the store
when key holders are transferred, leave
voluntarily or are terminated.
-
Require bottle return refunds over $3.00
to be co-signed at the time of the
transaction by someone who is required
to "eyeball" the number of bottles
returned as compared with the amount of
the refund slip.
-
Require employees to keep the receipt
for merchandise they consume in the
store during that day, for possible
verification by the manager.
-
Tell employees what will happen if
anyone is caught stealing . . . not what
can happen, but what will happen.
Promote a Theft-Free Culture
-
Include questions on personal integrity
in the pre-employment screening process
to let prospective employees know that
integrity is an important issue to your
company.
-
Start employees on the right foot by
welcoming them to the company, giving
them written rules of conduct and
describing the risks and consequences
involved in dishonesty so that they may
make the right decision for themselves,
should they ever find themselves in a
compromising position.
-
Don't treat employees like crooks, so
they feel mistrusted and unappreciated.
-
Give employees a reason to value their
job based on what they do and how they
are treated.
-
Encourage Loss Prevention to watch
employees less and work with employees
more.
-
Remind employees that it is better to
try and prevent a theft than try and
catch people.
-
Train employees how to say "NO" when
friends or relatives ask for extra
merchandise, a lower price or an
employee discount. Each employee should
be instructed in advance about what to
say when put in such a compromising
situation.
-
Explain to employees why employee theft
in a store causes a problem for
co-workers (e.g., managers begin to
distrust everyone, innocent co-workers
may be implicated, tighter internal
controls are installed, the manager may
lose his job, all employees may be
replaced).
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Make it easier for employees to come
forward to report their suspicions or
concerns:
-
Tell employees what to report and
when to report it
-
Tell employees exactly how the
information they provide will be
used
-
Give employees alternative ways to
report their suspicions (i.e., by
telephone, in writing or in person)
-
Reassure employees that they are
doing the right thing
Encourage Employee Involvement
-
Remember that the attitude and
performance of store employees is
heavily influenced by the attitude and
performance of store management.
-
Treat employees with respect and
consideration.
-
Although the customer is king, never
treat customers better than employees.
-
Keep employees well informed about
what's happening in their department and
the store, so they feel more a part of
the company.
-
Make yourself accessible to employees.
-
Be friendly and show your appreciation.
Say "good morning" and "thank you" to
people.
-
Reduce unnecessary stress on the job.
Employees should not be continually
subjected to excessive workload
pressure, unreasonable demands, constant
criticism or frequent threats by
managers or supervisors.
-
Make it easy for employees to call the
manager of security for assistance by
silent alarm, enunciator, intercom or
telephone.
-
Drop everything and respond immediately
when you receive an employee call for
assistance.
-
Don't criticize employees who may be
over-cautious.
-
Train employees what to look for and how
to respond to a potential shoplifting
situation, in a manner which will not
cause employees to fear becoming
involved in a confrontation or lawsuit.
-
Remind employees to observe the physical
symptoms and behavioral changes
associated with drug use.
-
Train employees that internal theft can
never be a big problem when the other
employees (by speaking up) don't allow
it to happen.
-
Catch employees at doing things right,
rather than only looking for what they
do wrong.
-
Remember that getting employees involved
in loss prevention can be an easy thing
to do because it will always become one
of their priorities when it becomes one
of yours.
In the U.S. alone, a commercial robbery is
committed every four minutes. That's more
than 100,000 robberies each year.
-
Be sure you have adequate lighting both
inside and outside your business.
-
Exterior lighting should illuminate dark
areas around your building and parking
lots.
-
Interior lighting should be adequate
enough to allow people outside your
business to see people inside.
-
Place a fence or hedge around your
building to discourage robbers by
presenting a significant hindrance to
getting away.
-
Place security signs and stickers on
points of entry to serve as deterrents.
-
Install silent alarms to notify police
and give them a better chance to catch
perpetrators.
-
Install some form of cash register
protection.
-
Install security cameras, which not only
serve as a strong deterrent, but help
with identifying a robber after the
crime has been committed.
-
Utilize a safe with a drop mechanism
that allows you to make periodic drops
during the day to minimize the amount of
cash in your registers.
-
Always drop large bills immediately and
publicize this to discourage potential
robbers.
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Shoplifting
35.8% of annual losses due to shrinkage are
attributed to shoplifting. The #1 reason for
shoplifting is that it is easy and there is
little or no risk involved.
-
Install convex mirrors that allow
employees to easily observe all corners
and aisles.
-
Have only one entrance and one exit to
your business.
-
Have a patrol officer at the entrance
and exit.
-
Keep expensive merchandise inside locked
cases.
-
Use electronic tags that cannot be
removed by a non-employee without
damaging the merchandise.
-
Install security cameras in plain view.
Other Threats
Liability -
More and more, businesses need to protect
against lawsuits and false insurance claims
brought by customers as well as employees.
Vendor Theft
Delivery shortages are very common. Have
your employees count every item delivered.
Employee Productivity
Otherwise honest employees stole $160
billion last year by wasting time on the
job.
Poor Customer Service
The average customer service incident
results in the loss of a minimum of 10
customers.
Fraud
Customers are less likely to commit credit
card and merchandise return fraud when there
is an obvious video surveillance system in
place.
Safety Tips for Seniors
Statistics show that the older you get, the
less likely you are to be a victim of crime.
But it still makes sense to take
precautions, especially against fraud and
con games, which are the greatest crime
threats for seniors.
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Safety Begins at Home
-
Install and use good locks on doors and
windows.
-
Don't hide keys under the doormat, in
the mailbox or in a planter. Leave an
extra set with a neighbor.
-
When service or delivery people come to
your door, ask for ID, and check with
their company if you're still not sure.
-
Make sure the street number on your
house is large, well-lighted and
unobstructed so emergency personnel can
find your home quickly.
-
If you decide to install an alarm
system, consider one that is monitored
for burglary, fire and medical
emergencies.
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Stay Safe When You Go Out
-
Go out with family or friends rather
than by yourself.
-
Hold your purse close or keep your
wallet in an inside front pocket.
-
Don't carry large amounts of cash or
unneeded credit cards.
-
Use a direct deposit service for Social
Security and other regular checks.
-
Keep car doors locked, be watchful in
parking lots and garages, and try to
park in well-lighted spots near
entrances.
-
Sit near the driver or the exit when
riding on a bus, train or subway.
-
If a person or situation makes you
nervous, get away.
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Don't Fall for Con Artists' Tricks
-
If it sounds too good to be true – free
vacation, miracle cure, sure-fire
investment, driveway sealing, roof
repairs – avoid it.
-
It is illegal for telemarketers to ask
for credit card, Social Security, phone
card or bank account numbers to verify
prizes, so if anyone asks, don't give it
to them.
-
If someone tries to rush you into
signing an insurance policy, sales
contract or anything else, be
suspicious. Read it carefully and have a
trusted friend check it, too.
-
Some con artists pose as representatives
of companies or government agencies
that, for a fee, recover money lost to
fraudulent telemarketers. Don't fall for
this trick.
-
When in doubt, check it out by calling
the police, the Better Business Bureau,
the local consumer protection office, or
the National Consumers League Fraud
Information Center at 800-876-7060.
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Things You Can Do in Your Community
-
Report any crimes or suspicious
activities to police.
-
Join a Neighborhood Watch program to
help protect your community.
-
Get involved in activities that can make
your community a better place, like
mentoring children, serving as a
volunteer aide for the police or fire
department, or escorting disabled
persons.
-
Check for a Triad program in your
community. It partners seniors with law
enforcement agencies to prevent crime
against the elderly and to give support
to law enforcement personnel. It is
sponsored by the American Association of
Retired Persons (AARP), the
International Association of Chiefs of
Police and the National Sheriffs
Association (NSA). Get details from your
AARP chapter, local police or by calling
NSA at 703-836-7827.
http://www.nsopr.gov/
- National Sex Offender Public Website
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Whatever your drug of choice, remember drugs
and alcohol can affect your ability to make
decisions (such as identifying danger signs
and plotting escape routes). Manage how much
you consume.
Always get your own drink. Watch it being
poured. Don't leave your drink unattended.
Don't drink or taste anybody else's drink.
Don't accept drinks from anyone else.
Dispose of your drink if you think it tastes
odd. (If you just leave it, someone else may
drink it).
Drugs used to "spike" drinks can be colorless
and tasteless so you might not realize that
anything has been added.
Be aware of the behavior of your friends. Is
their behavior out of character? Do they
seem too "out of it" for what they've had?
Watch out for your friends. Are they drinking
or taking too much? Are they making safe
decisions? Are they OK?
If your friend needs to sober up or
straighten out, check to see that they are
OK. Are they alone? Who is with them? Are
they safe?
Encourage people who are drunk to drink water
or eat something. Keep an eye on them, if
you can.
Do you really trust whom you are going home
with? Are you sure they won't make you do
anything you don't want to do? Will they
take "NO" for an answer? If you are going
home with someone different, let someone
know. Introduce them to your friends.
If You're Throwing The Party....
Know whom you have invited to the party and
plan what you will do if there are
gatecrashers.
Provide food and non-alcoholic drink spacers,
for example: water, soft drinks or juice.
Keep a look out for your guests. Make sure
they're safe and having a good time.
Offer to organize taxis for your guests. Take
a note of the taxi company you have called.
Create a safe atmosphere. If you know that
someone is harassing or intimidating someone
else, then do something about it:
Let them know you are watching; Ask the
person to stop; Ask them to leave; Find the
victimized person a safe place; Don't be
afraid to call the police.
Remember to stay safe yourself and ask for
help if you need it!
Bryan J. Buckner is an experienced home and
personal security professional. He currently
provides consulting services and offers a
wide range of self defense and surveillance
products through his company Guardian Self
Defense and Security Products. Please visit
us often at
http://www.guardian-self-defense.com/
and
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Despite many concerns, some now argue that it
is actually safer to by online than buying
over the phone or handing your credit card
over to someone in a shop. This is because
if the online payment is handled properly
your banking details will be "encrypted",
which means they cannot be viewed by anyone
other than those handling the transaction-
usually the banks.
If you're still unsure, Card Watch, a banking
group that works with the police and
retailers to stop credit card fraud, offer
the following "top ten tips" when buying
online:
Make sure your web-browser (that's the
software that you use to view websites, most
commonly Internet Explorer or Netscape) is
set to the highest level of security
notification and monitoring. These options
are not always automatically activated when
your computer is set-up, so check your
manual or the "Help" option.
Check if you are using a recent version of
your web-browser as they often include
better security features - up-to-date
versions can be downloaded free from the
Microsoft or Netscape websites. If you have
a different browser or use on-line services
such as AOL or CompuServe, contact your ISP
(Internet Service Provider) or software
supplier to find out how to activate their
security features.
Before purching from a website, make a record
of the retailer's contact details, including
a street address and landline phone number.
If these details are not available on the
website, consider going elsewhere to by, do
not rely on the e-mail address alone.
Do not enter personal details unless the
security icon is displayed (this is a small
padlock that normally appears at the bottom
of your browser when you begin your
transaction over the Internet). You can
click on the padlock to see if the retailer
has an encryption certificate. This should
explain the type and extent of security and
encryption it uses. Only use companies that
have an encryption certificate and use
secure transaction technology. The address
of the page where you enter personal details
should also start with https://, which
indicates you are in a secure transaction
environment.
If you have any queries or concerns,
telephone the company before giving them
your card details to reassure yourself that
it is legitimate.
Print out your order and consider keeping
copies of the retailer's terms and
conditions and returns policy. Be aware that
there may well be additional charges such as
postage and shipping. When buying from
overseas always err on the side of caution
and remember that it may be difficult to
seek redress if problems arise.
Check statements from your bank or card
issuer carefully as soon as you receive
them. Raise any discrepancies with the
retailer concerned in the first instance. If
you find any transaction on your statement
that you are certain you did not make,
contact your card issuer immediately.
Ensure that you are fully aware of any
payment commitments your are entering into
including whether you are instructing a
single payment or a series of payments.
Never disclose your card's PIN number to
anyone, including people claiming to be from
your bank or the police, and never write it
down or send it over the Internet.
If you have any doubts about using your card,
find another method of payment.
Internet Safety has come along way in a very
short period of time and by using these
simple safety tips your buying experiences
on-line will be safe. Now you can enjoy the
Internet with the "peace of mind" that your
shopping experiences are taking place in a
safe and secure environment.
I am Bryan J. Buckner, an experienced home
and personal security professional. We
currently provides consulting services and
offer a wide range of self defense and
surveillance products through our company
Guardian Self Defense and Security Products.
Please visit our secure websites at
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TIPS TO MAKE YOUR HOME SECURE WHILE YOU'RE
AWAY
Home burglary is a serious reality in the
world we live in. Criminal teams work
neighborhoods looking for unoccupied homes
to steal from. They may watch a home for
weeks to see who's coming and going. They
are also looking for patterns or consistent
times when no one seems to be at home.
Here are some powerful tips to help secure
your home.
Make sure your home looks like someone is
living in it. Don't close your curtains - in
the daytime this shows the house is empty.
Think about getting automatic time switches
to turn your lights on when it goes dark.
Fit mortise locks or bolts to all outside
doors, and locks to all downstairs or easily
accessible windows.
Cancel any deliveries such as newspapers,
packages, or milk.
Cut the lawn before you go and trim back any
plants that burglars could hide behind.
Get a friend or neighbor to look after your
home. They can collect your mail; mow your
lawn and so on. This gives the impression
that someone is living in your home. If you
leave keys with a neighbor, don't label them
with your address.
Don't leave valuables, like your TV,
computer, or treadmill where people can see
them through windows.
Mark any valuable items with your postcode
and house number using and 'invisible' pen
that you can get from most hardware stores.
If your property is stolen, this will help
the police to identify it if it is found,
which might not only allow them to return it
to you but could also provide them with
better evidence to convict the people
responsible.
Make sure that you have up-to-date contents
insurance.
Don't put your home address on your luggage
when you are traveling to your holiday
destination.
Lock the garage and shed with proper security
locks, after putting all your tools safely
away so they cannot be used to break into
your house. If you have to leave a ladder
out, put it on its side and lock it to a
secure fixture with a 'closure shackle'
padlock or heavy-duty chain.
Finally, lock all outside doors and windows.
If you have a burglar alarm, make sure it is
set and that you have told police who has
the key.
And just before you set off, its worth
spending a couple of minutes checking that
you've done all you had to do and taken
everything that you need with you.
Help from your neighbors is also a good idea.
Ask them to keep an eye on your home while
you're away.
You could also ask them to collect post left
in the mailbox, sweep up leaves, even mow
the lawn and generally make the place look
lived in.
You can repay the favor by doing the same for
them. Warn the neighbor who has you key not
to put your surname, address, or even your
house number on your keys in case they fall
into the wrong hands.
Is there a neighborhood watch scheme where
you live? Your local police will tell you if
there is a scheme in your area or help you
set up one of your own. It could help you
keep your home secure while you're away, and
has many other crime prevention and
community benefits!
Bryan J. Buckner is an experienced home and
personal security professional. He currently
provides consulting services and offers a
wide range of self defense and surveillance
products through his company Guardian Self
Defense and Security Products. Please visit
us at
http://www.guardian-self-defense.com/
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It has been said that children are our most
valuable resource. Therefore, it is
absolutely necessary that we take positive
measures to insure their safety and prevent
them form becoming victims of crime.
As parent's it is our responsibility to make
sure our children are safe! With that said,
here are some very valuable tips for parents
to ensure child safety.
Never leave children alone; not at home, in a
vehicle, at play, or anywhere.
Define what a STRANGER is. Let your kids know
that just because they see someone everyday
(e.g. mailman, paperboy, neighbor, etc.) it
does not mean these people are not
strangers.
Teach your children their full name, your
name, full address, and phone number,
including area codes. Teach them how to use
a phone.
Teach your children the "What if...?" Game,
making up different dangerous situations
that they might encounter and helping them
play out what they would do in that
situation.
Take the time to talk to your children and be
alert to any noticeable changes in their
behavior or attitude toward an adult or
teenager; it may be a sign of sexual abuse.
Set up procedures with your child's school or
day care center as to whom the child will be
released to other than yourself, and what
notification procedures they are to follow
if the child does not show up on time.
Teach your children that their body is
private and no one has the right to touch
them in a way that makes them feel
uncomfortable. If anyone touches them in a
wrong way they should: SAY NO, GET AWAY, and
TELL SOMEONE they trust.
Bryan J. Buckner is an experienced home and
personal security professional. He currently
provides consulting services and offers a
wide range of self defense and surveillance
products through his company Guardian Self
Defense and Security Products. Please visit
us at
http://www.guardian-self-defense.com/
and
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The M-18 Taser Is An Extremely Effective Self
Defense Weapon, Yet It Is Non-Lethal But
Extremely Powerful!
SO HOW DOES AN ADVANCED TASER WORK?
Upon firing, compressed nitrogen projects
two ADVANCED TASER probes 15 feet at a speed
of 135 feet per second. An electrical signal
transmits throughout the region where the
probes make contact with the body or
clothing. The result is an instant loss of
the attacker's neuromuscular control and any
ability to perform coordinated action.
ADVANCED TASER uses an automatic timing
mechanism to apply the electric charge. The
ADVANCED TASER releases an electric current
in a preset time sequence (an initial seven
seconds followed by several 1.8 second
breaks for a total time of about 30 seconds
in each cycle). This cycle ensures that the
nervous system of the target does not
recover instantly to allow him to remove the
probes. The follow-on bursts disrupt the
process of re-equilibration of the nervous
system. While the target is disabled, the
user can place the device on the ground and
escape.
HOW CAN THE ADVANCED TASER BE SO EFFECTIVE
YET NON-INJURIOUS? The ADVANCED TASER does not depend upon impact or body
penetration to achieve its effect. Its
pulsating electrical output interferes with
communication between the brain and the
muscular system, resulting in loss of
control. However, the ADVANCED TASER is
nondestructive to nerves, muscles and other
body elements. It simply affects them in
their natural mode. More importantly, no
deaths have ever been directly attributed to
the TASER .
WHAT HAS TESTING REVEALED REGARDING THE
ADVANCED TASER? Anesthesiologist and specialist in medical electronics, Dr.
Frank Summers, MD of St. Joseph's Hospital,
Orange, California, directed tests of
volunteers at St. Joseph's in 1971 and 1974.
Dr. Summers stated, "...We undertook this
[volunteer test] in the operating rooms at
St. Joseph's Hospital. We had an assembly of
cardiovascular surgeons, cardiologists... we
had a real [TASER]. We tested extensively
and made movies. The tests were impressive.
We monitored all parameters of physiology,
including electrocardiographs. The tests did
not produce any lethal effects and we found
that the background work that had been done
did indeed pan out in practice."
DOES THE TASER AFFECT THE HEART OR A CARDIAC
PACEMAKER? The ADVANCED TASER's output is well below the level established
as "safe" by the federal government in
approving such devices as the electrified
cattle fence. In a medical study of the
Model XR 5000Ô electronic stun gun, Dr.
Robert Stratbucker of the University of
Nebraska Medical Center confirmed that the
T-Wave does not interrupt the heartbeat or
damage a pacemaker. Any modern pacemaker is
designed to withstand electrical
defibrillator pulses that are hundreds of
times stronger than the ADVANCED TASER's
output. The ADVANCED TASER current of 0.3
joules is well below the 10-50 joule
threshold above which cardiac ventricular
fibrillation can occur.
ISN'T HIGH VOLTAGE LETHAL?
High voltage, in itself, is not dangerous.
One can receive a 25,000-volt shock of
static electricity from a doorknob on a dry
day without harm. The physiological effect
of electrical shock is determined by: the
current, its duration, and the power source
that produces the shock. The typical
household current of 110 volts is dangerous
because it can pump many amperes of current
throughout the body indefinitely. By
contrast, the ADVANCED TASER power supply
consists of 8 AA batteries that are capable
of supplying less than three watts of
electrical power for a few minutes.
WILL THE TASER CAUSE ELECTROCUTION?
No. The output is metered by the electronics
and the electrical energy in each pulse is
always the same, regardless of the target
condition. The electrical output will not be
transferred from one person to another even
if they touch. ADVANCED TASER, Inc.'s
president has been stunned by an ADVANCED
TASER while standing in water to emphasize
this point.
WHAT ARE THE AFTER EFFECTS?
A person hit with an ADVANCED TASER will
feel dazed for several minutes. The
pulsating electrical output causes
involuntary muscle contractions and a
resulting sense of vertigo. It can
momentarily stun or render an attacker
unconscious. Yet, the ADVANCED TASER's low
electrical amperage and short duration of
pulsating current, ensures a non-lethal
charge. Moreover, it does not cause
permanent damage or long-term aftereffects
to muscles, nerves or other body functions.
A January 1987 Annals of Emergency Medicine
study reported TASER technology leaves no
long term injuries compared with 50% long
term injuries for gun shot injuries.
MUST THE PROBES PENETRATE THE BODY TO BE
EFFECTIVE? No. The electrical current will "jump" up to two inches as long
as both probes are attached to clothing or
skin. At most, only the 3/8-inch needlepoint
will penetrate the skin. They have less
energy than a spring propelled BB.
WHAT IF THE PROBES MISS? The ADVANCED TASER
can be used in a touch-stun mode. The user
is thus provided with a final backup if the
probes miss the target. Should the user miss
or engage a second attacker, he can touch
the unit directly to the target and it will
work like a powerful touch-stun device.
WHAT IS THE BEST-SHOT AT MAXIMUM RANGE?
As long as the spread of the probes is at
least six inches, the ADVANCED TASER will be
extremely effective. To ensure that the
spread is greater than six inches, the
ADVANCED TASER should be fired at a target
several feet away. The optimum shot is from
seven to ten feet away form the target to
achieve maximum effect. At seven to ten feet
away - the spread of the probes will be
approximately 16 inches, ensuring that the
target receives the most efficient T-Wave
flow.
DOES TEMPERATURE HAVE A DETRIMENTAL EFFECT ON
THE ADVANCED TASER? No. The ADVANCED TASER utilizes compressed nitrogen (an inert
gas). The ADVANCED TASER compressed air
capsules have successfully held their
charges at temperatures of minus 20º F and
up to 160º F. Moreover, altitude will not
adversely effect the firing of an ADVANCED
TASER. In addition, the temperature will not
effect the T-Wave. However, as with any
product containing poly carbonates and other
thermoplastics, the ADVANCED TASER and Air
Cartridges should never be left in direct
sunlight.
So there you have it the Advanced Taser
extremely safe and should be considered the
non-lethal self defense weapon of choice for
anyone concerned about personal safety.
Bryan J. Buckner is an experienced home and
personal security professional. He currently
provides consulting services and offers a
wide range of self defense and surveillance
products through his company Guardian Self
Defense and Security Products. We carry the
M-18 Taser please visit us at
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Working parents, and that is the great
majority of American families today, share
the anxiety, frustration, and even fear
involved in leaving children home alone when
school lets out, child care arrangements
with neighbors and relatives break down, or
there simply are not any alternatives. The
question is; What can you do?
The most important thing you can do is to
have a plan. Make sure your children are
ready to care for themselves. Take the time
to teach them basic safety rules. Always
know where your kids are, what they are
doing, and whom they are with.
Are They Ready? Can Your Children:
1. Be trusted to go straight home after
school? 2. Easily use the telephone, locks,
and kitchen appliances? 3. Follow rules and
instructions well? 4. Handle unexpected
situations without panicking? 5. Stay home
alone without being afraid?
Spend time with your children, talk it over
with them, and listen to their worries and
ideas. Work out rules on having friends
over, household chores, homework, and
television. Remember, staying at home alone
can build a child's self esteem, sense of
responsibility, and practical life skills.
Teach Your "Home Alone" Children:
1. How to call 911 or your area's emergency
number, or call the operator. Make sure they
know how to reach you or a close family
member if needed. Let your neighbors know
that your child is home alone. Set up times
for your child to check in with the
neighbor. Instruct the neighbor to call you
if the child misses the scheduled check in
time.
2. How to give directions to your home in
case of an emergency. Role play with your
child to practice doing just that. Create a
variety of situations that require your
child to give directions to your home and
even your place of employment.
3. To never accept gifts or rides from people
they do not know well. (And you approve of).
Teach them how to respond if they are ever
put in this situation. If confronted, teach
you child to firmly say "NO" and quickly
walk away to a safe place for help. If the
confrontation escalates your child should
know how to "cause a seen". They can scream
HELP, HELP, HELP. Even better, buy your
child a personal alarm. These devices are
small, inexpensive, and equipped with an ear
piercing alarm that is sure to get attention
and deter a would be attacker.
4. How to use the door, windows, locks and
alarm system in your home. If you do not
have an alarm system...get one. There are
numerous home protection alarms that are
wireless, easy to install, and inexpensive
alternatives to a wired home security
system. These type devices could save a
child's life!
5. To never let anyone into the home without
asking your permission. Teach your child not
to open the door for a stranger. Invest in a
peep hole, so your child can see who is at
the door.
6. To never let a caller at the door or on
the phone know they are alone.
7. To carry a house key with them in a safe
place (inside a shirt pocket or sock) - do
not leave it under a mat or on a ledge. This
is the first place a robber or attacker will
look.
8. How to escape in case of fire. Have
planned fire drills with your children to
teach them what escape routes may be
available in case of fire.
9. To not go into the house or apartment if
things do not look right - a broken window,
ripped screen, or opened door. Teach them to
be aware of their surroundings at all times
and to go immediately for help in these
types of situations.
10. To let you know about anything that
frightens them or makes them feel
uncomfortable. Open communication is the key
to your child's safety and your "peace of
mind."
Bryan Buckner owner of Guardian Self Defense
& Security Products. We offer wide variety
of self defense products including child
safety devices, home protection products,
personal alarms, pepper sprays, and much
more. Please visit us for all your family
protection needs.
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The con artist's philosophy is "the gullible
were put on this earth to be gulled." In the
past, con artists were usually referred to
as con men. This is no longer the case as
more and more women have become involved in
con games and numerous variations of con
games. Before we proceed with some tips on
"how not to get conned" you should always
remember that a con artist could be a male
or female. In addition, many times the con
artist will work with a child who will
assist them in accomplishing their goal.
That goal is to GET YOUR MONEY.
Here are some good rules to follow all the
time - whether or not you suspect a fraud.
Don not believe in something-for-nothing
offers. You get what you pay for.
Be suspicious of high-pressure sales efforts.
Take your time; think about it before you
part with your money.
Get all agreements in writing. Insist that
agreements be in plain English and not
legalese.
Read all contracts and agreements before
signing. Have a lawyer examine all major
contracts.
Beware of anyone who comes to your door
asking for money for charity or for personal
reasons.
Home improvement fraud has become extremely
popular with con artists. Home repairs and
improvements can be costly. Watch out if:
Somebody offers to do an expensive job for an
unusually low price.
If a firm offers to make a "free" inspection
or if the person just happened to be in the
neighborhood.
The most popular home improvement frauds are
roof repair and painting, driveway sealing,
and termite inspection.
To avoid home improvement and repair fraud,
try the following:
Always get several estimates for every repair
job, and compare prices and terms. Check to
see if there is a charge for estimates.
Ask your friends for recommendations.
Alternatively, ask the firm for references -
and CHECK THEM!
Check the identification of all "inspectors"
Call the loan Consumer Affairs office or the
Better Business Bureau to check the
company's reputation before you authorize
any work.
Be suspicious of high-pressure sales tactics.
Pay by check - never with cash. Arrange to
make the payments in installments.
These are some simple tips that can help
ensure you don't fall victim to a con
artist's scam!
Bryan J. Buckner is an experienced home and
personal security professional. He currently
provides consulting services and offers a
wide range of self defense and surveillance
products through his company Guardian Self
Defense and Security Products. Please visit
our websites at
http://www.guardian-self-defense.com/
and
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Rape is a serious problem in the United
States today. The United States has the
highest rape rate among countries which
report such statistics. It is 4 times higher
than that of Germany, 13 times higher than
that of England and 20 times higher than
that of Japan.
The rape rate in the US in 2004 was 40.4 per
100,000 persons. Women are 10 times more
likely than men to be victims of sexual
assault (National Crime Victimization
Survey, 2005). A study among college women
has shown that 1 out of every 5 college age
women report being forced to have sexual
intercourse. (2000 National College Health
Risk Behavior Survey) 22% of all women say
that they have been forced to do sexual
things against their will, where only 3% of
men admit to ever forcing themselves on a
woman. (Laumann, 2001)
Only 16% of rapes and sexual assaults are
reported to the police (Rape in America: A
Report to the Nation. 2000). In 2004 there
were 97,460 rapes reported to law
enforcement officials. At a 16% reporting
rate, this means that there were actually
closer to 649,733 rapes in the United
States. Along the same lines, the number of
rapes reported in New York state in 2004 was
20,911. At a 16% reporting rate, this means
the actual number of rapes was closer to
139,406. (Computerized Criminal History,
Feb. 2005)
What Should You Do To Prevent Sexual Assault?
Always be aware of your surroundings. Stay in
well-lit areas as much as possible. Walk
confidently, directly and at a steady pace.
A rapist looks for someone who appears
vulnerable.
Walk on the side of the street facing
traffic. Walk close to the curb. Avoid
doorways, bushes and alleys where rapists
can hide.
If you think you are being followed, walk
quickly to areas where there are people and
lights. If a car appears to be following
you, turn and walk in the opposite direction
or walk on the other side of the street.
Be careful when people stop you for
directions or money. Always reply from a
distance and never get too close to the car.
If you are in trouble or feel you are in
danger, don't be afraid to attract help any
way you can. Scream, yell or run away to
safety.
Always lock your car. Keep your car locked
when you are away from it to keep someone
from hiding and waiting inside. When you are
inside the car, lock the doors for safety.
Look inside and around your car before you
get in. Be aware of other people in parking
areas, especially those close to your
vehicle.
If you think someone is following you, drive
to a public place or police station to get
help. If your car beaks down, open the hood
and attach a white cloth to the antenna. If
someone stops to help, stay inside your
locked vehicle and ask them to call the
police.
Make sure someone knows where you are, how to
contact you and when you should be back. If
you don't arrive when expected or can't be
contacted they should call the police for
help.
Be sure to lock the doors and windows of your
home. As simple as it seems, over half of
all sexual predators report that they
entered a victims home through an unlocked
door or window.
Invest in a home security or surveillance
system. Just having these types of systems
are proven to deter most potential
attackers. If an attack does occur the
security system will alert the police and
your neighbors. While a surveillance system
will capture the attack and almost guarantee
capture and prosecution.
When dating or meeting new people it is best
to plan activities in groups. Surround
yourself with people you know and trust.
Never leave or allow yourself to be in a
situation where you are alone with a
stranger, especially if drugs or alcohol are
involved.
Consider buying some type of non-lethal self
defense weapon for protection. Give careful
consideration to your ability and
willingness to use it. Know how the product
works and how to use it. Remember there is
always the chance that it could be taken
away and used against you. If you are
skeptical about weapons, educate yourself,
enroll in a self defense class or pick up a
book or instructional video on self defense
training.
Bryan J. Buckner is an experienced home and
personal security professional. He currently
provides consulting services and offers a
wide range of self defense and surveillance
products through his company Guardian Self
Defense & Security Products. Please browse
our websites at
http://www.guardian-self-defense.com/
and
http://www.guardian-surveillance-cameras.com/
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Self Defense Products – A Very Lucrative
Industry
Have you ever
thought about starting your own self defense
and personal security business? I know for
most people it’s not one of those things
that you wake up in the morning thinking
about. Think about this for a second; crime
is all around us, it knows no boundaries. It
does not matter where you live; chances are
crime, in some form, is prevalent.
Some of the
statistics in the United States are down
right frightening. Listen to this; a murder
occurs every 27 minutes, theft occurs every
4 seconds, aggravated assault occurs every
31 seconds, property crime is happening
every 3 seconds, robbery every 58 seconds, a
rape occurs every 6 minutes, auto theft
every 13 seconds, and burglary every 13
seconds! Even worse the experts say the
problem is only getting worse.
As a husband,
father, and person I feel it is my
responsibility to protect myself, my family,
and loved ones. As a result I started
becoming interested in trying to make a
difference for my family and my community.
Shortly, after I was presented with an
opportunity to do just that. A way to
provide my family, friends, community, and
now individuals and businesses in almost
every state with ways to protect themselves.
Wealth,
happiness, love, and security are common
goals and there are many opportunities
available to help us attain them. The
consumer security products industry is still
in its infancy. New products are being
developed all the time, distribution
channels are still being established, and
the public is becoming more and more aware
of the need and availability of personal
security products.
Industry
estimates show that less than 10% of the
U.S. population uses any kind of personal,
residential, or automotive security device.
What does that mean for you…it means the
market is wide open. The fact is personal
security is one of man’s most basic needs.
It is the essence of self preservation and
as old as life itself. After life sustaining
food and water security is the second basic
need of all creatures.
The need, or
demand, for personal security is inherent in
all of us. It doesn’t have to be developed
with an advertising campaign, explained in
detail, or “positioned” against any other
competitive need. Each person’s need for
personal security and safety is born within
them. It’s simply a fact of life which needs
no further explanation. And because the need
for personal security is inherent in all
people, the marketplace for personal
security products is the entire world.
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Crime Prevention – Preparation Is Key
Have you watched your local news
lately? Have you picked up a copy of your
local newspaper? How about the national
news? I have…and what I continue to see and
hear over and over again is quite
concerning. I’m talking about crime. Crime
has hit epidemic proportions, it seems to be
everywhere. Whether you live in a city,
suburb or rural area crime is happening. Our
husbands, wives, children, mothers and
fathers are no longer safe.
Did you know that almost half of the
police departments in the US have less than
10 sworn officers to protect and serve their
respective communities! This is amazing to
me considering the following facts. Every 20
seconds in the U.S. someone is the victim of
a motor vehicle theft or “carjacking”! Every
23 minutes someone is murdered. In contrast,
only 23,000 murderers are arrested each
year… you do the math. Every minute 3
violent crimes are taking place. That means
every 20 someone is raped, assaulted or the
victim of domestic violence. One in six
children aged 10 to 17 know someone who has
been shot! Excluding murder there are
43,547,400 crime victims every year. Have
you been a victim yet?
Crime and violence cost U.S.
taxpayers an estimated 13.5 billion dollars
per year. So that’s where you’re hard earned
money is going. Sadly, a police officer is
killed in the line of duty every 63 hours. I
could go on and on, but enough is enough!
It’s time to take a stand on crime.
It’s time to protect our most valuable
possessions; our family and loved ones.
Preparation is the key to successfully
keeping you and your family safe. That means
excepting the facts, then saying, “I not
going to allow myself or family to fall
victim”.
One of the most popular and
effective ways to deter and prevent crime is
to arm yourself with non-lethal self defense
weapons. Whether you choose pepper spray, a
stun gun, a taser, or a self defense video,
it’s your responsibility to protect those
that mean the most to you. Given the latest
statistics one in four people will fall
victim to violent crime this year. I don’t
like those odds, and you shouldn’t either.
It’s up to us to educate ourselves
about crime prevention, and then choose the
self defense product that meets our needs. I
urge you to join the war on crime. Don’t be
the next victim. Take action now… it could
be the most important thing you’ve ever done
for yourself and your family.
I invite you to visit our self
defense superstore. We developed an
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We are here to help. The fact is you
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What Are
Raves?
"Raves" are high energy, all-night dances
that feature hard pounding techno-music and
flashing laser lights. Raves are found in
most metropolitan areas and, increasingly,
in rural areas throughout the country. The
parties are held in permanent dance clubs,
abandoned warehouses, open fields, or empty
buildings.
Raves are frequently
advertised as "alcohol free" parties with
hired security personnel. Internet sites
often advertise these events as "safe" and
"drug free." However, they are dangerously
over crowded parties where your child can be
exposed to rampant drug use and a high-crime
environment. Numerous overdoses are
documented at these events.
Raves are one of the most
popular venues where club drugs are
distributed. Club drugs include MDMA (more
commonly known as "Ecstasy"), GHB and
Rohypnol (also known as the "date rape"
drugs), Ketamine, Methamphetamine (also
known as "Meth"), and LSD.
Because some club drugs
are colorless, odorless, and tasteless, they
can be added without detection to beverages
by individuals who want to intoxicate or
sedate others in order to commit sexual
assaults.
Rave promoters capitalize
on the effects of club drugs. Bottled water
and sports drinks are sold at Raves, often
at inflated prices, to manage hyperthermia
and dehydration. Also found are pacifiers to
prevent involuntary teeth clenching, menthol
nasal inhalers, surgical masks, chemical
lights, and neon glow sticks to increase
sensory perception and enhance the Rave
experience.
Cool down rooms are
provided, usually at a cost, as a place to
cool off due to increased body temperature
of the drug user.
Don't risk
your child's health and safety. Ask
questions about where he or she is going and
see it for yourself.
What Are Club
Drugs?
1)
Methylenedioxymethamphetamine (MDMA)
Street
names: Ecstasy, E, X, XTC, Adam, Clarity,
Lover's Speed
An amphetamine-based,
hallucinogenic type drug that is taken
orally, usually in a tablet or capsule form.
Effects:
- Lasts 3-6 hours.
- Enables dancers to
dance for long periods of time.
- Increases the chances
of dehydration, hyper tension, heart or
kidney failure, and increased body
temperature, which can lead to death.
- Long-term effects
include confusion, depression, sleep
problems, anxiety, paranoia, and loss of
memory.
2) Gamma-hydoxybutyrate
(GHB)
Street
names: Grievous Bodily Harm, G, Liquid
Ecstasy, Georgia Home Boy
A central nervous system
depressant that is usually ingested in
liquid, powder, tablet, and capsule forms.
Effects:
- May last up to 4
hours, depending on the dose used.
- Slows breathing and
heart rates to dangerous levels.
- Also has sedative and
euphoric effects that begin up to 10-20
minutes from ingestion.
- Use in connection
with alcohol increases its potential for
harm.
- Overdose can occur
quickly-sometimes death occurs.
3) Methamphetamine
Street
names: Speed, Ice, Chalk, Meth, Crystal,
Crank, Fire, Glass
A central nervous system
stimulant, often found in pill, capsule, or
powder form, that can be snorted, injected,
or smoked.
Effects:
- Displays signs of
agitation, excited speech, lack of
appetite, and increased physical
activity.
- Often results in
drastic weight loss, violence, psychotic
behavior, paranoia, and sometimes damage
to the heart or nervous system.
4) Ketamine
Street
names: Special K, K, Vitamin K, Cat Valium
An injectable anesthetic
used primarily by veterinarians, found
either in liquid form or as a white powder
that can be snorted or smoked, sometimes
with marijuana.
Effects:
- Causes reactions
similar to those of PCP, a hallucinatory
drug.
- Results in impaired
attention, learning, and memory
function. In larger doses, it may cause
delirium, amnesia, impaired motor
function, high blood pressure, and
depression.
5) Rohypnol
Street
names: Roofies, Rophies, Roche, Forget-me
Pill
Tasteless and odorless
sedative, easily soluble in carbonated
beverages, with toxic effects that are
aggravated by concurrent use of alcohol.
Effects:
- Can cause anterograde
amnesia, which contributes to Rohypnol's
popularity as a "date rape" drug.
- Can cause decreased
blood pressure, drowsiness, visual
disturbances, dizziness, and confusion.
6) Lysergic Acid
Diethylamide (LSD)
Street
names: Acid, Boomers, Yellow Sunshines
Hallucinogen that causes
distortions in sensory perception, usually
taken orally either in tablet or capsule
form. Often sold on blotter paper that has
been saturated with the drug.
Effects:
- Are often
unpredictable and may vary depending on
dose, environment, and the user.
- Causes dilated
pupils, higher body temperature,
increased heart rate and blood pressure,
sweating, dry mouth, and tremors.
- Can cause numbness,
weakness, and nausea.
- Long-term effects may
include persistent psychosis and
hallucinogenic persisting perception
disorder, commonly known as
"flashbacks."
Know the Signs
Effects of stimulant
club drugs, such as MDMA and
Methamphetamine:
- Increased heart rate
- Convulsions
- Extreme rise in body
temperature
- Uncontrollable
movements
- Insomnia
- Impaired speech
- Dehydration
- High blood pressure
- Grinding teeth
Effects of sedative/hallucinogenic club
drugs, such as GHB, Ketamine, LSD, and
Rohypnol:
- Slow breathing
- Decreased heart rate
(Except LSD)
- Respiratory problems
- Intoxication
- Drowsiness
- Confusion
- Tremors
- Nausea
Effects common to all club
drugs can include anxiety, panic,
depression, euphoria, loss of memory,
hallucinations, and psychotic behavior.
Drugs, traces of drugs, and drug
paraphernalia are direct evidence of drug
abuse. Pacifiers, menthol inhalers, surgical
masks, and other such items could also be
considered indicators.
Where Do You Go
for Help?
If you suspect your child
is abusing drugs, monitor behavior
carefully. Confirm with a trustworthy adult
where your child is going and what he or she
is doing. Enforce strict curfews. If you
have evidence of club drug use, approach
your child when he or she is sober, and if
necessary, call on other family members and
friends to support you in the confrontation.
Once the problem is
confirmed, seek the help of professionals.
If the person is under the influence of
drugs and immediate intervention is
necessary, consider medical assistance.
Doctors, hospital substance programs, school
counselors, the county mental health
society, members of the clergy,
organizations such as Narcotics Anonymous,
and rape counseling centers stand ready and
waiting to provide information and
intervention assistance.
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